A big idea needs to be applied slowly. If you seize it too eagerly and employ it too enthusiastically, you may lose the subtlety that this solution requires. Remember it is more important to be responsive to changing circumstances than it is to have a rigid policy. Remember too, that people can be perverse. Give them too much information and they might use it against you. Confide only in those you feel sure you can trust. But where you do feel that it is safe to be so bold, don't hold back; be wholehearted.