'No news is good news'. They also say, 'What the eye doesn't see, the heart doesn't grieve'. Mind you, they say too that, 'knowledge is power'. They say far too much, whoever 'they' are. Who cares what they say? Your first priority, is to decide whether there is something that you believe because you know it to be true - and not just because 'they' say it is. Why should you bother what 'they' say, or think? Why would you try to remain ignorant of a fact? Don't be afraid. Be sure of yourself.