WOMAN - on a spiritual journey

WHY WE ARE ON THIS EARTH? WHAT IS ESSENCE OF OUR EXISTENCE? WHO I AM? ALL THESE QUESTIONS ARE NOT AS SIMPLE AS THESE APPEARED. MENTAL AND PHYSICAL POTENTIAL DEVELOPED THROUGH  SIMPLE FOOD AND CONTROL OF STRESS. OUR BREATHING SYSTEM CAN EXPLAIN WHAT ARE WE THINKING? PURPOSE OF LIFE HAS TO BE DISCOVERED SO EXPLORE THE BENEFIT OF POSITIVE THINKING. SO ASK WHY WE ARE DOING WHAT WE ARE DOING. OUR THOUGHTS ARE SELDOM OUR OWN,ACTUALLY WE ARE INFLUENCED BY OTHERS,IMITATE OTHERS. OR SAY WE ADOPT WHAT WE LIKE. OUR OPINIONS AND PASSIONS ARE TRENDS. CHANGE WITH CHANGING TRENDS AND TIME. WE HAVE BEEN PRETENDING TO BE AND THE LIVES WE HAVE BEEN LIVING UNTIL OUR THOUGHTS ARE MOULDED ACCORDING TO RUES AND VALUES THAT ARE NOT OUR OWN. SOME OF US BREAK THIS PATTERN AND SET NEW TRENDS,DARE TO TREAD PATH LESS TRAVELLED. WE ARE DOING THINGS AS OUR ELDERS DID. ALL ARE RECORDED IN OUR BRAIN IN FIRST YEARS OF OUR LIVES. CHILDREN DO AS THEIR PARENTS DO. THEY TEND TO COPY NATURALLY. THOSE WHO CARED FOR US OR

KEY TO HAPPINESS ; HAPPINESS DOES NOT DEPEND ON WHAT YOU HAVE AND WHAT YOU DO NOT HAVE. LISTEN TO YOUR BODY-BODY REACTS FIRST. NEXT IS TRY TO LIVE IN PRESENT. ACCEPT WHATEVER  IS THERE IN YOUR LIFE, SOME THINGS YOU CAN NOT CHANGE,DO NOT STRUGGLE WITH INEVITABLE,INSTEAD COOPERATE NATURE.YOUR INTUITION IS GUIDING YOU.LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE,INTUITION. SILENCE IS MUCH NEEDED TO SAVE YOUR ENERGIES. CONSERVE YOUR ENERGIES- YOU ALONE CAN JUDGE  YOUR WORTH, GREAT FREEDOM IS IN RELEASING YOUR INNER STRENGTHS. CONTROL ANGER HEALING IS CO-OPERATING WITH NATURE ,RESISTING IS DUE TO  OLD HURTS,PEOPLE YOU LOVE OR HATE REFLECTS YOUR INNER STATE,IT IS YOUR REALITY. WHAT YOU MOST HATE IS WHAT YOU MOST DENY IN YOURSELF.LOVE OR HATE ALL ARE PROJECTIONS OF YOUR OWN  INNER WORLD.KNOW SELF AND WHAT DO YOU WANT THE MOST, AUTOMATICALLY DISLIKE WILL DISAPPEAR. SHED YOUR JUDGEMENTS.YOU WILL FEEL LIGHTER AS YOUR OWN JUDGEMENTS IMPOSES RIGHT OR WRONG SITUATIONS. FORGIVE AND FORGET. EVERY PERSON YOU FORGIVE

TOTAL ACCEPTANCE IS WHATEVER HAPPENS POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE ALL IS HIS WILL AND ALL IS WELL. OUR PROBLEM IS THAT WE SWAYED BY EGO.WE HAVE TO TAKE REFUGE IN GOD. THAT IS ALL WE NEED TO DO.EVERYBODY WANT TO BE A MASTER SO THERE IS SHORTAGE OF SERVANTS,READY TO SERVE IS WAY TO WISDOM-GREATNESS.DEAD BODY BECOMES A DIVINE AND WE BOW TO IT, IS NOT SOMETHING SUBTLE? EXPLORE DIVINITY INSTEAD OF INDULGING SELF IN MATERIAL GAINS. EQUILIBRIUM WITH FORCES LIKE WIND,SUN ATMOSPHERE ETC. THESE NATURAL SYSTEMS HAVE DEVELOPED MECHANISMS FOR SENSING ALL ELEMENTS. CONFLICTS ARE WHEN THERE IS NOT EQUILIBRIUM. TO RESOLVE ALL CONFLICTS WE NEED BALANCE. A POWERFUL MIND IS GREAT  INFORMATION PROCESSOR AND HENCE CAN PROCESS SIGNALS AND INFORMATION FROM THE SURROUNDINGS VERY EFFICIENTLY WITHOUT AWARENESS THE INTERACTION WITH THE FORCES IS THE ONLY WAY,WE ARE CONTROLLED BY THE FORCES. TRY TO UNDERSTAND OTHER PERSON POINT OF VIEW SO THAT EQUILIBRIUM WITH THE SURROUNDING HAPPEN. COMPROMISES ARE NOT EASY THING TO

NOW THE FOCUS IS ON WORLDLY GOALS,PEOPLE'S IDENTITY IS ON  SELF WORTH IS BASED ON MATERIALISTIC  ACQUISITIONS AND STATUS, FAILED TO GET THESE, CREATE MENTAL IMBALANCE AND TEND TO SUICIDE IS VERY COMMON  SO NOBODY  IS READY TO ACCEPT FAILURES,RUNNING AFTER SUCCESS AND MATERIAL GAINS ONLY.EVEN  A TEENAGER CAN COMMIT SUICIDE FOR NOT GETTING A GOOD PARTY WEAR DRESS,SHOW-BUSINESS IS AS SUCH. DEFINITION OS SUCCESS IS MATERIAL  GAINS AND STATUS IN SOCIETY,FORGETTING THAT SKY IS LIMIT,IF YOU HAVE ACQUIRED CORES,THERE ARE MULTI CRORES, TRILLIONS BILLIONS-EVEN YOU GET BORED OF ONE THING SOON AND WANT ANOTHER WITH SAME INTENSITY. NEXT SITUATION IS FEAR OF LOSING WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE. THIS FEAR IS CONSTANT.AFTER SOMETIME  YOUNGER ONE FEEL THAT LIFE IS NOT WORTH LIVING AND NOT FULFILLING ONLY RESPITE IS TO  ESCAPE BY DESTROYING ONE'S LIFE. NOW EVERY BODY IS RACING A RACE TO EXCEL,YOUNGER ONE FOR MARKS OR GRADES,ADULTS FOR SUCCESS IN TERMS OF POSSESSIONS AND STATUS, HOW DISGRACEFUL IS TO

JUST AS A CHILD SEE THE LOVE OF HIS MOTHER NOT ONLY HER PAT,BUT ALSO IN HER SLAP, SPIRITUALITY  IS SAME AS IT RESCUE US NOT AT THE TIME OF SUCCESS BUT AT FAILURES,RESENTMENTS AND AGONY. SPIRITUALISM GLORIFIED OUR ACTS,INSTILL A POSITIVITY AND WE INVEST OUR TIME IN SERVICE OF GOD.WE GET PEACE,JOY AND HARMONY WITH ALL HUMAN BEINGS  JUST BECAUSE OF SPIRITUALITY. WE ARE AS ASSURED WITH GOD'S ASSURANCE OF LOVE,CARE AND UNDERSTANDING- AT LEAST SOMEONE IS ABLE TO UNDERSTAND US- IS RELIEVING US OF MANY DOUBTS AND WORRIES. WHEN WE SEEK SUCH TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP WITH PEOPLE WE MAY BE DUMPED OR DECEIVED AS IT IS HUMAN NATURE. WHEN WE  ARE SPIRITUAL WE ENJOY LIFE MUCH BETTER THAN OTHERS WHO DOES NOT FOLLOW SPIRITUALITY AS IT IS  NOT A RELIGION IT IS A FAITH-OUR BELIEF SYSTEM IS AS SUCH WE NEED SOMEONE WHOM WE CAN TRUST,EMOTIONALLY. GOD WILL NEVER DECEIVE US.EVEN WHEN EVERYTHING GOES WRONG WE HAVE STILL SOMEONE AS OUR OWN.OUR MENTAL HEALTH AND STATE OF MIND IS MUCH BETTER BECAUSE NOW WE ARE

EASTERN WISDOM SAYS THAT ESSENCE OF OUR EXISTENCE IS IN RELATIONSHIPS. NOW CONFLICTS, BROKEN HEART RELATIONSHIP,FAMILY RELATIONS ARE STRAINED DUE TO LACK OF INTERACTIONS,LACK OF TIME SPEND TOGETHER. SO CRISIS IN PERCEPTION,CRISIS IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH OUR LOVED ONES,OUR SOCIETY,WITH ENVIRONMENT EVERYWHERE WE SEE DISHARMONY. WE ARE EXPERIENCING DISTRESS AT THE STATE OF WORLD, EVERY CONFLICT IS A STORY OF FAILED RELATIONSHIP. SO WE DREAM,DREAMS OF HARMONY, LOVE,CREATIVITY TO CHANGE THE STORY WITH HAPPY ENDING.ALL ARE PERSONAL  AND GLOBAL AT THE SAME TIME,THEN WE SEEK COMFORT IN RELIGION TO TRANSFORM OUR LIVES AND SEE RELIGION AS THE ONE ELEMENT TO RELIEVE US OF ALL CONFLICTS AND OTHER RELATION RELATED ISSUES.WE ARE DREAMERS DREAMING  PERFECTION. OUR OWN EXPERIENCES CLASHES ,THE AUTOMATIC REACTION IS TO PUSH AWAY THE UNKNOWN AND FORTIFY WHAT WE ALREADY KNOW. KNOW   OUR OWN SHORTCOMINGS,BELIEF AND PERCEPTIONS WHICH CREATE CONFLICTS AND CONFUSIONS.  HAVE FAITH BUT NOT BLIND FAITH.TEST

"And we say a man is 'ruined.'" Are his wife and children dead? O, no. Have they had a quarrel, and are they separated from him? O, no. Has he lost his reputation through crime? No. Is his reason gone? O, no; it is as sound as ever. Is he struck through with disease? No. He has lost his property, and he is ruined. The man ruined!  All is in our thoughts,pay attention to whatever you still have. How rich we are we never knew,why because we never pay attention to what we already have and look at what we do not have.Is it fair? Be thankful to god  for all the gifts.     "And we say a man is 'ruined.'" Are his wife and children dead? O, no. Have they had a quarrel, and are they separated from him? O, no. Has he lost his reputation through crime? No. Is his reason gone? O, no; it is as sound as ever. Is he struck through with disease? No. He has lost his property, and he is ruined. The man ruined!  All is in our thoughts,pay attention to what

When ever you feel heavy emotional load,do not hide it. You may follow spirituality or find a shoulder to put you head on and unload in way of simple cry.Some  have belief that crying is  weakness and one must not show off.But suppression of emotional turmoil  leads to depression or any other mental disease. Crying is a sign of honesty,you have strength to reveal the truth,makes you stronger to face hardships in life. It is also a common belief that only women or children can cry and men should not,men are supposed to hold back their tears,they do not want to label as weak.Emotions are universal have no nationality or gender.In fact tears dissolve oneself into a childlike purity and innocence.But crying too often is indeed a weakness or sort of blackmailing.Everyone cry with pains.Crying may be negative or positive.It is attached with pain so crying is considered as a negative,but tears release and reduce the pain. Psychiatric suggest  tears wipe down your sorrows,once you are thro

Swami VIVEKANANDA : there is only one  element in life which is worth having  at any cost and what is it, It is love. Love has immense power and infinite broad as a sky,deep as an ocean  THIS IS THE GREAT GAIN IN LIFE,BLESSED IS HE WHO GET IT. Things are and things would be in this world  as it is in the nature of things.I had traveled among various sects. which had taken up the idea of foreign nations as their own and I had begged at the doors of others not knowing that in the region of my country, there was so much beauty and grandeur. It is now many years since I found Hinduism to be the most peaceful satisfy religion in the world ,it is ancient and very human for all alike.                                          I looked behind and after and fined that all is right                                          In my deepest sorrow there is soul of light. In his last days he said: Each one of us is in influence of Karma. It works our itself  There is only one element in life is

GLORIFYING SUFFERINGS TAKES US AWAY FROM GOD AS GOD IS HAPPINESS. SUFFERING ARISES ONLY WHEN WE IDENTIFY SELF WITH PAIN AND IGNORANCE. SUFFERINGS KEEP US SAD AND HURT BECAUSE WE CHOOSE TO MAKE THEM SO. WHY DO YOU CONTINUE to let someone hurt you. We don’t let go things and person or circumstances that hurt us,we punish us. What had happened years ago still  hurting  you,is it not sound funny,but this is fact,sometimes we are too blinded by the hurt  unable to see things clearly.Take active part in now and release your pains.  First  acknowledge the cause of pain then work through it. Allow yourself to bring up a painful memory you have avoided at the very first time. Don’t hold back  no one is you,forgive is not a one step deal,resentment,anger and realizations are different stages,you are going through. You are not at mercy, past is gone but its thorn is still pricking,pain is deep down inside and pretending  that it is not there would not do,TO HEAL ALLOW PAINFUL MEMORIES TO

WORLD DO NOT CARE FOR YOU. YOU ARE ENJOYING WORLD'S GIFTS SO ENJOY WHAT YOUR LIFE PRESENTS AND THAT IS ALL!

I KNOW MY OWN POT HOW OTHER BOIL—FRENCH PROVERB.   BE INWARDLY AWARE OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELING AS THESE FEELING MAY BE NEGATIVE.WHEN YOU ARE NOT ENJOYING  WHATEVER  YOU ARE DOING  THEN IT  WOULD BE DIFFICULT TO MAINTAIN A  BALANCE,  UNITARY  INTEGRATION OF POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE EMOTION IS NECESSARY. OUR BELIEFS ARE LENSES EVERYONE WEARING AND SEE THROUGH IT.BELIEVING IS  SEEING  RATHER THAN SEEING IS BELIEVING.THAT IS WHY EVERYONE INTERPRETS THE  CONCLUSIONS  IN HIS OWN WAY. WE ARE UNIQUE AND HAVE INSTILLED THE  SURROUNDING  BEHAVIOURS  AUTOMATICALLY  OUR BEHAVIOUR IS INFLUENCED BY GENETIC AND SURROUNDING INTERACTIONS,  ESPECIALLY   IN EARLY LIFE,IMPRINT POWERFUL MEMORIES IN OUR  BRAIN   OUR MEMORIES WHICH GOVERN ACTIONS, MEMORIES SET OUR BEHAVIOURAL PATTERN. INFLUENCED WHOLE LIFE.   Though we can change our destiny by strong willpower and efforts.Thoughts needs tremendous processing capability of brain and it can only be achieved if the mind gets rid of some existing

WHENEVER A PERSON LOSES THE WILL TO LIVE,HIS RESISTANCE FALLS BECAUSE BODY FOLLOWS THE MIND,BODY IS SERVANT OF MIND AND REFLECTED IN THE BODY BY DROPPING OF RESISTANCE AGAINST SICKNESS.THE ROAD AHEAD IS NOT CLEAR AND THE PERSON  HAS  LOST WILLINGNESS TO LIVE,  A POINT  WHERE ROAD ENDS.BUT WHEN THE SUN RISES EVERYTHING WILL BE DIFFERENT. LOSING WILL TO LIVE IS SICKNESS AND BEFORE ANY  MEDICATION  IT IS NECESSARY TO UNDERSTAND THE ROOT, WHY PAST WAS DARK AND PRESENT IS  UNINTERESTING  WHY,FIND  OUT THE  REASON,THEN SORT OUT THE REMEDIES,WILL IS ALREADY DEAD SO RISE WILL TO LIVE. LIVING WITHOUT A WILL IS PROBLEM FOR ALL WHO ARE LIVING WITH SUCH PERON. LIVING JOYOUSLY IS A PRAYER AND EVERYBODY IS CAPABLE OF LIVING JOYOUSLY. THERE IS NOTHING BEYOND MIND. LOVE ASK ME NO QUESTION, AND GIVES ME ENDLESS SUPPORT. –WILLIAM  SHAKESPEARE . THERE IS SOMETHING BEYOND OUR MIND WHICH ABIDES IN SILENCE. IT IS THE  SUPREME   MYSTERY  BEYOND THOUGHT. LET ONE’S MIND AND ONE’S  SUBTLE  BODY REST

IN  WORLDLY  CIRCUMSTANCES IT IS DIFFICULT TO  TRAVEL  WITHIN; IN SILENCE ONE CAN FIND UNENDING SPACE AND THE TRUTH AND MYSTERY OF EXISTENCE. SOUL IS IDENTIFYING ITSELF WITH EVERY ATOM OF THE UNIVERSE. UNDER PRESSURE FROM DAILY TRAILS AND TRIBULATIONS, THE QUALITY OF LOVE, COMPASSION, EMPATHY AND TOLERANCE HAVE ALL BUT DISAPPEARED. TRUE COMPASSION DOES NOT RECOGNISE ANY BARRIER. DIVINE EXISTS IN EVERYONE AND END OF SUFFERING CAN TRANSFORM THE WORLD BY TRANSFORMING OURSELVES SO CULTIVATE THE ACTS OF LOVE AND  SACRIFICE . WE BECOME  RESTLESS  AND EXHAUSTED, DISSATISFACTION LEAD TO WASTAGE OF ENERGY AND WE MISS THE GIFT OF LOVE. OTHERWISE OUR ENERGY HAS BEEN USED FOR ENHANCING THE FAMILY AND SOCIETY, SPIRITUALITY.LOVE AND  SERVE  OTHERS.OPEN YOUR HEART TO THE BEAUTY OF NATURE AND BLISS AT EACH MOMENT TO THE INTERCONNECTEDNESS AND UNITY.  SILENCE HELPS US TO BECOME NORMAL AND ALLOW TO FOCUS ON THE JOB IN HAND. WE ARE NOT ISOLATED BUT LINKED WITH CHAINS OF LOVE AND COMPASSION, BE CALM

HUMAN LOVE RELATIONS OR COMPANION BRINGS  DISAPPOINTMENTS  AS LOVE IS ATTACHED TO BODY AND DEVELOP SELF INTEREST, ATTACHMENTS, DISTRACTIONS WHEREFROM COME TIREDNESS, DEPRESSIONS AND DIFFERENCES.ONLY LOVE OF GOD IS ALL  PERVADING   NO ONE HAS ANY RIGHT OT EXPLIOT OR HARM ANYBODY IN ANY SENSE.BE WITH GOD’S GRACE AND HAS FAITH WITH HIM. MAN IS FREE FROM ALL FORMS OF LIMITATIONS IRRESPECTIVE OF TIME AND SPACE, DOUBTS AND COMPASSIONS AND SUCH FREEDOM IS POSSIBLE ONLY WHEN WE RAISE OUR STATE OF CONSCIOUSNESS. WE WILL ALSO REQUIRE THE ABILITY TO CHOOSE WHAT IS TRUE AND  BENEFICIAL   FOR THIS WE  MUST  DEVELOP DEEP FAITH IN GOD.  SURRENDER  TO GOD AND ACCEPTING ALL AS SWEET WILL OF GOD IS TRUE WORSHIPPING. LAW OF KARMA AND CHOICE WILL BRING RESULTS.DESIRE AND EGO ARE OUR LIMITATIONS, BREAK FREE. MAN  IS  NOT AN ISLAND,THERE IS INTERCONNECTIVITY  AMONGST  ALL AND  WE HAVE TO ACCEPT WHATEVER COMES TO US AS RESULT OF OUR OWN ACTIONS,WITHOUT  ESCAPE   A SYMPATHETIC CONNECTION WITH SOMEONE CAN

Of all desires of the mind satisfied in self alone by the self,then steady wisdom with a mind unshaken by adversity makes one not only  hanker after happiness,one become free from affection,fear and wrath. A happy man is never obsessed with their work,he enjoys whatever he does but not obsessed with the work.One has to see how much is enough for him. Whether he would work for one day or two days a week,other time he would use in playing guitar,dance or just sit with friends and gossip,whatever he does with a playful attitude. Mind is from life and life is from matter,so casting away all desires of the self. Know that one thing by which everything can be known” once he is known all other knowledge becomes redundant for then the Jiva or living entity get freed from bondage to the material world. Broader or deeper knowledge has several advantages over material health. A spiritual voyage which matter the most,accept your promises with good grace even if you are feeling somewhat ti

So ask self- Do you are where you wanted to be? Others support you or not. WHEN EVER YOU LOST INTEREST IN  SELF,IT IS A ALARMIN THING.IT MIGHT HAVE HIDDEN MEANING,RAISE YOUR MORALE TO  GRASP THE FACTS AND ABILITY TO EXPRESS SELF. OUTER IMAGE OR STYLE WON’T MATTER. PUT ASIDE YOUR DESIRES  IS SOMETIME GOOD BUT DO NOT MAKE A HABIT OF IGNORING SELF,AS RAISING A VOICE FOR SELF IS YOUR DUTY AND NO ONE ELSE WILL SPEAK FOR YOU. FOR THIS CLEAR YOUR MENTAL EMOTIONAL  BAGGAGE  EMOTIONAL TIREDNESS IS A SIGNAL THAT YOU NEED A BREAK.  IN GOD’S ECONOMY NOTHING GOES WASTE. DON’T BE AFRAID OF YOUR FLAWS.  ACKNOWLEDGE  THEM, YOU TOO CAN BRING SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL TO LIFE. YOUR FAILURES MAY BE LESSONS FOR YOU,THE CLASSROOM OF LIFE IS PERFECTLY ARRANGED SO THAT WE LEARN  WHAT WE NEED,AND THE WAY YOU LEARN YOU HAVE TO DECIDE- WHAT COMES YOUR WAY AND WHAT IS TRUE,WHAT IS NOT,WHAT APPLIES TO YOU AND WHAT DOES NOT APPLIES TO YOU.  ALL ARE  YOUR OWN CHOICES.  YOU ARE DOER, WATCHER AND LEARNING LIFE- BO

LOVE IS WHAT HELPS YOU COMPREHEND THE WHOLE—J. KRISHANMURTI NO ONE CAN TEACH YOU HOW TO LOVE IF YOU COULD LEARN HOW TO LOVE FROM BOOK AS WE LEARN  MATHEMATICS ,THIS WOULD  A MARVELLOUS ,THERE WOULD BE NO HATE,NO EXPLOITATION,NO WARS,NO DIVISION OF RICH AND POOR AND WE WOULD BE REALLY FRIENDLY WITH EACH OTHER. BUT  LOVE IS NOT EASY ,IT IS EASY TO HATE- LOVE IS DIFFICULT. YOU CAN  LEARN  HOW TO LOVE BY PUTTING ASIDE HATE. HATE IS FOR  DISAGREEMENT  SORT OUT THEM FIRST. DROP IT AND BRUSH IT ASIDE.DO NOT LET HATE TO ROOT IN YOUR MIND,MIND IS RICH SOIL  SO HATE WOULD GROW FASTER AS A WEED. THEN YOU WOULD HAVE PROBLEM TO ROOT IT OUT. IF YOU ENCOURAGE HATE, GIVE IT TIME HATE ARISES AND THEN YOUR MIND WOULD BECOME VERY SENSITIVE. MIND CAN  PURSUE   SENSATION ,DESIRES BUT CAN NOT  PURSUE  LOVE. LOVE MUST COME IN MI ND .  A MIND RIDDEN WITH SORROWS WILL NEVER KNOW THAT WHAT LOVE IS  LOVE NO DIVISION ONLY DIVINITY- DIVINITY  IS  EXTRAORDINARY THING  ABOUT LOVE. LOVE IS SOMETHING FRESH,AL

RELATIONSHIPS ARE ONE OF THE BEST AND TOUGHEST PATHS TO SELF  REALISATION. THOSE WHO CHOOSE POVERTY AND LIVE IN CAVES AND SELECTED A PATH  THAT IS NOT A CHILD’S PLAY BUT MAINTAINING A FAMILY, HOUSE AND OFFICIAL   DUTIES IS ALSO NOT A CHILD’S PLAY.  RELATIONS  ARE NOT COINCIDENTAL OR UNIMPORTANT. THINK OVER THE MATTER THAT WE MEET THOUSAND OF PEOPLE IN OUR LIFE TIME WHY WE BOUND TO SOME PERSON WHILE IGNORING OTHERS? WE FACE POSITIVE AND  NEGATIVE  ASPECTS SOONER OR LATER WHY? IN EVERY  NEWSPAPER HEADLINE  IS STORY OF DISTRESS AND CONFLICTS- OF FAILED RELATIONSHIPS,WHY? BECAUSE WE HAVE FORGOT TO LOVE AND SACRIFICE. LOVE IS THE KEY AND RELATIONSHIPS PROVIDE LIFE LONG BONDS FOR GIVE AND TAKE LOVE.THINK OVER THE MATTER WHEN FOR THE FIRST TIME WE MET A PERSON AND FALL IN LOVE, EVERY MOMENT SEEMS PRECIOUS AND WE WANT TIME SHOULD STAND STILL. THEN   THE SAME RELATIONSHIP  SUFFER  SUFFOCATION OR STRESS,RAPIDLY CHANGING THE VIEWS- IT MAY BE WAKE UP CALL FOR SPIRITUALISM. THOUGH IF THE PARTN

As we tend to dismiss what is not seen or touched, mind’s power are subtle and its healing powers are most powerful, as it comes directly through cosmic  world. We enjoy visualizing fantasies and imaginary world. We see that nature works subtly but clearly. We feel nature through eyes, touch and feelings. Who has designed all this? Mind has essential power to heal and one can heal self by mental powers sooner than drugs. Only we have to resolve to get well soon mentally. The moment we committed to self nature starts its work. Healing is self initiated and yet no evidence is there of this power. Healing process we experience that who respond by godly power and seek more gain by less pain, we seek the easiest way,by strong character,self-respect and confidence all are instilled through hardship. Great master who own great powers accept hardship and lived a simple life at their own sweet will yet have great capacities to provide others what they need.So we must be willing to take rea

Media is glorfying young girls to expose their body for money and glare sake. Inspirational values of womanhood qualities are pushed back in the background,glorifying the sexuality,expose to the world of glamour making them addicted to all glitz and money after which they are ready to do anything to become  famous overnight. It’s women who are at fault,to achieve their objective they are ready to exploit their own physical attributes to the fullest extent. To achieve their objective they are ready to exploit their own physical attributes to the fullest extent. Looking good is essential to a women. Nobody is forcing women to do all such nonsense but they have find their own voice and ways to go to any extent,becoming a salable thing,they willingly opt for it. World of glamour is far from reality like fairy tales,once a foot forward can’t be holdback due to glitter. Seeing one beautiful (may be naked) wearing less or transparent clothes which in spite of covering, expose a lot. Mora

BLESSING HAVE POWER.EARN BLESSING BY DOING GOOD. IF YOUR HEART IS AS PURE AS OF A CHILD,NOTHING CAN MAR YOUR GOOD FORTUNES.IF YOU ARE HONEST, HARD WORKER NOTHING  CAN KEEP YOU DOWN THOUGH FOR SOME TIME IT LOOKS LIKE IT, BUT CLOUDS CAN'T COVER SUN FOR LONG TIME SUN WOULD COME OUT OF CLOUDS SOONER OR LATER. TRUE WORSHIP IS GIVING OTHERS SMILE AND PEACEFUL ATMOSPHERE,DO NOT LOOSE YOUR HEART IF YOU DO NOT GET SUCCESS OR WHAT DO YOU WANT AS BIGGER THAN YOUR EXPECTATIONS,THINGS MAY BE WAITING FOR YOU. Even if you know you are right, stubbornness will cause you harm and conflict. You will have to look for equilibrium and the possibly for meditation to avoid disagreements occurring. It will be vital for you to recognize the moment to stop, even if this is half way through the journey

Your character should be pure to the extent the people on the earth may recognize god through you,the source of energy .the more you are attuned to your self to the divine divine grace ,through . him the more anything in your life  flowed smoothly. An individual has two aspects,his individuality and the essential existence. Existence means to be aware of being alive. When we observe the degree of awareness,we see the existence that operates behind the individuality,and individuality is not individual but as truth as a radiance of conscious self. There are so many things one can  aspire  to be TV is adding fuel to the fire. Everyone now want to be famous and remember that  those  who say no,they are lying. Everyone wants his  name  to be whispered,one must be  aware  that things do not changed overnight. You may have a throne at the royal court with beautiful decoration and soft  carpets,all sorts of delicious fruits and beautiful gardens,the excitement of the chase and princel

YOU MUST HAVE FEW BELONGINGS TO SERVE BETTER AND BE RELAXED,OTHERWISE MOST OF YOUR TIME WILL BE SPENT IN TAKING CARE OF YOUR BELONGINGS.EITHER LEARN EFFECTIVE LIFESTYLE OR RUN AT THE RISK OF OVERLOADED BY EMOTIONS AND DEPRESSION FOR NOT COPING UP THE DAY TO DAY UPDATE.

False is false and true is true. we are one with god,all the powers are godly powers.Fears are sense or separation While source is god and generator of our existence  All the confusions are illogical and conflicts are of our own ego. And attunement means oneness with the source and prayers serve the purpose of being one with the source. We pray for approval,for validation,,for permission,for forgiveness all from outside source that have no real power over us or to get help.Prayer must recognise oneness as a fact,for to perceive separation is to create it and power to create is always projected in the idea of separation only. The prayers do not bring happiness which we are seeking while praying because then we are justifying our separateness  So the ultimate prayer is the recognition of our oneness with divine will and with all love and power and with all those perceived as separate. You can't be a victim and a master,you can not have both ways. This is the key to freedom through

PRAYER IS A REQUEST TO GOD. YOU WANT SOMETHING BIGGER THAN YOU,POWERFUL THAN YOU, IT IS TO GOD OR PERSON MIGHTIER THAN YOU.  Our conduct is mirror,which shows reality -how we are in actual practice.Meditation is like viewing a mirror. Grooming inside and outside equally to show  better. So keep clean mirror of conduct,heart is also a mirror  as we act as we wish, heart propels us to do actions and our conduct is framed. Get up early in the morning,refresh yourself for the day and start your day with positive energetic mood. Spirituality is the only medicine which cures all your physical and mental blocks. PRAYER IS A REQUEST TO SUPER POWER AND SURPRISINGLY WE ARE ALWAYS IN CONSTANT  PRAYER,ITS A COMMUNICATION AND DEPENDS TO WHOM WE ARE PRAYING. THE MOMENT TO MOMENT CONTENTS OF OUR PRAYERS OF HEART AND MIND WISHING WHICH ARE NEVER ENDING.THE SOURCE IS WITHIN,THEN TO WHOM WE ARE PRAYING? WHAT I AM GETTING IS THE CONCERN, TRYING TO PLEASE OTHERS IS NOT OUR BASIC NATURE, IT IS ARTIF

FREEDOM IS OUR BIRTHRIGHT,GROW IN SENSE OF FREEDOM AND INDEPENDENCE THAT COMES FROM KNOWING SELF. ELDERLY PEOPLE ARE TRENDSETTER FOR YOUNGERS AS OLD AGE IS UNAVOIDABLE,SHOULD BE USED IN PURPOSEFUL WAY.AN OPPORTUNITY FOR BETTERING ONESELF  INSPIRING OTHERS TO LIVE  WITH GRACE. IN OLD AGE ONE CAN LIVE ON HIS OWN TERMS WITHIN FRAMEWORK OF RIGHTEOUS WITHOUT BEING TIED DOWN TO COMPULSIONS. AS AGE IS IN MIND AND MIND STAYS YOUNG WHEN TRAINED EFFECTIVELY AND PROPERLY,DEVELOP A CURIOUS MIND BEING KEEPING THE INTEREST LIVE. KEEP BUSY YOURSELF ,LIVE IN PRESENT AND DO NOT CREATE A VACUUM- A SENSE OF INADEQUACY AND A SENSE OF INCOMPLETENESS, A VACUUM MUST BE FILLED WITH SOME ACTIVE,PHYSICAL AND MENTAL ACTIVENESS. JOIN A LIBRARY OR ASSOCIATION WITH SOME RELIGIOUS OR SPIRITUAL ORGANISATION WHICH WILL KEEP YOU ACTIVE AND SATISFIED. LEARN AND LIVE WITH HIGHER VALUES OF LIFE. KEEP IN TOUCH WITH PEOPLE OF YOUR AGE AND COMPARE SELF POSITION,YOU MIGHT NOT BE AS SICK THEY ARE,YOU MIGHT BE IN A BETTER

Diwali is KALI CHOUDAS, AND A HARVEST FESTIVAL. LIGHTNING LAMPS IS A WAY OF PAYING OBEISANCE LAMPS TO GOD FOR ATTAINMENT OF HEALTH,WEALTH AND KNOWLEDGE. NOW THIS FESTIVAL HAS LOST ITS MEANING AS IT TOO HAS BECOME A SHOW BUSINESS. LATELY IT WAS CELEBRATED WITH RELIGIOUS FLAVOUR. THIS FESTIVAL IS CELEBRATED IN kartik month PEOPLE USED TO GET UP EARLY IN THE MORNING AND HAVE A OIL BATH,THEY FRESHEN UP AND WORE THEIR FESTIVE ATTIRE  LIGHT UP LAMPS  WITH PURE GHEE , PURIFYING THE ATMOSPHERE AND BODY. dARKNESS IS IGNORANCE AND LIGHTING LAMPS  SYMBOLIZING THE DESTRUCTION OF IGNORANCE THROUGH LIGHT OF AWAKENING AND KNOWLEDGE. THIS MONTH IS VERY PLEASANT SO THOUGHTS RISE IN MIND FILLED WITH FEELING OF JOY DIWALI IS CELEBRATED IN FOUR DAYS FIRST DAY IS KNOWN AS DHANTERAS CELEBRATED TO REVERE DHANVANTARI THE PHYSICIAN OF GOD'S AND GODDESS. EARTHEN LAMPS ARE LIT FOR EVERY INDIVIDUAL IN THE FAMILY AND ANCESTORS AND THEY ARE FLOATED TO RIVER OR A POND. nEXT DAY IS DIWALI, THE MAIN FESTIVAL

I NOT ONLY USE ALL THE BRAINS THAT I HAVE,BUT ALL THAT I CAN BORROW.---WOODROW SILSON. THE WHOLE WORLD STEPS ASIDE FOR THE MAN WHO KNOWS WHERE HE IS GOING.-ANON. LIFE IS TO LIVE,LIVING IS NOT A EASY GAME. EVERYBODY USES  WILL,WILLINGNESS TO DO CERTAIN THINGS AND NOT TO DO THINGS.BEHIND HUMAN WILL IS DIVINE WILL. WHEN YOU REFUSE FAILURES YOU SUCCEED. ALL IS IN BRAIN,OUR BELIEF SETS DETERMINES HOW WE ACT AND REACT TO CERTAIN THINGS AND MATTERS. OUR LIFESTYLE AND BELIEFS COMES FROM WHAT WE HAVE HEARD,SEEN OR READ AND ACCEPTED  OUR ALL NOTIONS ARE OUR BELIEF SETS. AND WHATEVER OUR BELIEFS ARE DEPEND UPON OUR EFFORTS,THE DEGREE OF EFFORTS DECIDE THE SUCCESS RATE,BUT FIRST WE WEAVE  PATTERN OF LIFESTYLE IN OUR THOUGHTS. FOR EXAMPLE THOUGHTS OF HAPPINESS BRING SMILE AND THOUGHTS OF ANGER WILL BOIL OUR BLOOD  WITH NEGATIVENESS WE TEND TO RETALIATE  BUT IF WE ACCEPT WHAT IS IN OUR LOT AND DOING OUR DUTIES WITH A SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY,AT LEAST A SATISFACTION WOULD BE THERE. PRA

MIAN MIR WAS A GREAT MUSLIM SAINT OF GREAT  RENOWN, BEING A MAN OF GOD, NO BARRIERS OF CASTE OR CREED MARKED HIS THOUGHT. AT THE INSTANCE OF GURU ARJUN PIR MIAN MIR LAID THE FOUNDATION STONE OF HARMANDIR OF AMRITSAR. BAISAKHI IS HARVEST FESTIVA , BIRTH OF KHALASA IN 1639 BY GURU GOVIND SINGH JI.  1875 FOUNDATION OF ARYA SAMAJ  AND ATTAINMENT OF NIRVANA BY GAUTAM BUDDHA. ALLAM AARA RELEASED ON 14 MARCH 1931, ABOUT 11,000 FILMS HAVE BEEN RELEASED AND 65,000 SONGS .

WE RUN AT THE RISK OF TYING OURSELVES UP IN IDEOLOGICAL KNOTS AND ALLOWING VESTED INTERESTS TO DOMINATE OTHERS,WE MUST SHED THE FEAR OF UNKNOWN AND HAVE THE SELF CONFIDENCE TO TAKE RISKS TO EXPERIENCE,THINK AND TO ACT DIFFERENTLY. A MORE HUMAN CARING,CREATIVE AND DARING PERSONALITY IS WHAT WE NEED. WE HAVE DONE GOOD AND CAN DO BETTER AS HUMANS HAVE CAPABILITIES TO DO MORE. HARD WORK IS THE ONLY SOLUTION TO ALL OUR PROBLEMS,WE CAN BEAT ANYONE. FOR EXAMPLE WHEN WE ALL ILL TAKING MEDICINE IS NECESSARY BUT TAKING DRUG IS SERIOUS PROBLEM,YOUTH IS NOT CONFUSED NOT CONCERNED ABOUT SOCIAL OR POLITICAL PROBLEMS. WHEN IT COMES TO ENJOY THE GOOD THING IN LIFE BUT QUICK TO REVERT TO SAFRY OF FAMILY PROTECTION AT THE FIRST HINT OF TROUBLE,THEY ARE EITHER CYNICAL OR INDIFFERENT TO SOCIAL VALUES. GLOBALISATION HAS OPENED MANY AVENUES OR THEM TO EXPLORE. THE YOUTH PERFORM THE EASY WAY IN MARRIAGE,WORK AND RELATIONSHIP. ACTUALLY THEY ARE HYPOCRITES WHO DO NOT ADMIT IN PUBLIC WHAT THEY WANT? THEY H

THE WORD I LOVE YOU AND I LOVE YOU TOO! IS IT A TRUE EXPRESSION OF LOVE OR EXCHANGE OF LOVE FEELING? NO-NO, IT IS A COVER TO COVER UP THE CONSTANT UNDERLYING FEELING OF DISCONTENTMENT OR PAIN WHICH IS INSEPARABLE FROM THE EGOISTIC STATE. THE EGO BELIEVES THIS PERSON IS CAUSING THE PAIN,WHERE AS IT DOES NOT REALISES THAT PAIN IS UNIVERSAL FEELING OF NOT BEING CONNECTED WITH THE DEEPER LEVEL OF YOUR BEING AND NOT BEING ONE WITH YOURSELF. End of relationship does not mean  demise of feeling. In family if a child grows up witnessing domestic violence then that’s what  we will follow later,people are constantly living on the edge,there is nagging feeling of dissatisfaction  that should not have.If a person is still in our life,we  apologise  and share our concern,our learning experiences that I want to be like this now and I hope that you will help. Discover life through suffering and experience,there are critical moment in a man’s life when all the traditional reasons,we have to