WOMAN - on a spiritual journey

 

Wonders of the joy of our own existence is great. No body wants to die especially when he/she come to know there is a killer cancer in the body. God is perfect and the ideal of perfection is within too! To discover the wonders of the joy of our own existence is to find out: we are loved and protected by an invisible power that upholds universe and gives beauty to the smallest things. Yes, cancer is a disease but not a death sentence. Its an alarm to look life in a different way. That is living for today and Thanksgiving for next day if it comes. The sense of gratitude becomes a way of life and each minute has value so no carelessness has done.

I do not have an answer to what pleases God. All I do know is I am deeply flawed but in all my flaws there is still deep love for Him and Her. Also if I am flawed it is for no other reason but due to my own failing and weaknesses at different points in time. Nothing to do with God, Goddess, Guru, and the lack of charity, prayers, meditation. My being flawed is due to my inherent issues.  I do not believe God or anything outside me, has any role to play in my being and No amount of prayers, meditation and indulging in charity is going to change my inherent self and it is my inherent self that shall decide when and how I reach my final destination of being face to face with The One and sort of tickle His and Her funny bone. Who I am is going to decide my true destination and not what I do or not do.

Beginnings only happen when someone has the courage to express their desires.     We all know the strength of feeling that binds peoples' hearts together.  It's so subtle that it's all too easy to forget what a crucial and critical part it plays in our lives. It feels as if everything needs shaking up. These feelings are valuable and worth holding on to. But, rather than leaping into action, take a moment to reflect.  Decisions made in the heat of the moment can have long-lasting consequences. Fortunately, for the rest of us, we rarely encounter life-or-death decisions.  N o relationship can have a happy ending if it never has the chance to begin.

What really impresses the hearts of people is genuine humility, integrity and a true sense of love achieved through service Purpose of all knowledge is to convince us that we should love God.   They were waiting for some miracle to happen so that the entire family could come out of this. Every thing has to start from home not from outside. .  It was like a vicious circle! More she would curse, more things would go bad. More bad they were, more she would curse   This could happen only when started being kind to herself and then she could be kind to others too.

It takes a brave person to go into the snow after the avalanche We're not here for very long. So make the most of every moment.'

SOME  MUST HAVE QUALITIES Adaptable Adventurous Affectionate Ambitious Artistic Assertive Broad-minded Capable Caring Charming Cheerful Clear-headed Clever Compassionate Competent Confident Conscientious Considerate Courageous Creative Dependable Determined Devoted Dynamic Easy-going Efficient Energetic Enterprising Enthusiastic Fair Faithful Flexible Friendly Funny Generous Gentle Glad Good-natured Happy Helpful Honest Hopeful Idealistic Imaginative Independent Industrious Intelligent Inventive Kind Likable Logical Lovable Mature Merry Modest Natural Neat Non-judgmental Nurturing Open-minded Optimistic Organized Original Outgoing Patient Peaceful Persevering Persistent Pleasant Polite Positive Practical Precise Progressive Punctual Rational Realistic Reasonable Reflective Relaxed Reliable Resourceful Responsible Robust Sexy Sincere Sociable Spontaneous Spunky Stable Strong Tactful Talented

Understand others' intentions and moods.  fulfill your aims by eliminating resistance providing that you can understand and go along with everyone enthusiasm will do the rest.

You may be surprised to know that if it's not an inborn tendency to   hate  our fellow humans that makes monsters out of us, but our   fear   of them (can you believe that!) that is at the root of our own evil - the evil within! Here's how it happens...   "Fear leads to Anger, Anger leads to Hatred, Hatred leads to Suffering..."

Some dreams are probably best kept in the realm of our imaginations. After all, if they were real, in the harsh glare of reality they might lose their allure and fail to live up to our expectations. In our mind's  eye  we can set the stage, choose the cast, edit the scenes and guarantee the perfect ending. It's not so in the real world. 

Dramatic our lives might be if we had our own personal backing track... every romantic moment highlighted by lush strings... every tense encounter accompanied by a rumbling piano. In a sense, we do have a musical score underpinning everything we do. Our emotions colour our experiences. We're not automatons dutifully fulfilling daily obligations with stoic indifference: we're imbued with the capacity for appreciation. Emotions give our lives meaning

What's wrong with the world? Perhaps it's that it's full of people who all think they know what's wrong with it! We're all quick to criticise. We look at the actions and priorities of people in charge and we groan. And, when the movers and the shakers get replaced by new leaders, we soon conclude that the new lot are no better than the old. It's easy to find fault rather than forgiveness.

Well! Sometimes we must realize that there are things that happen, which are beyond our understanding. Everything need not be understood by us. When we can’t understand something, we can simply accept it. We must learn to accept whatever has happened and move on in life because this human journey is limited. How many years are we going to be on Earth? If we spend several years trying to answer a question that we can’t answer or spend several years unlocking the mystery, at the end of it, we may find a possible answer or solution. But what’s the use if our life itself is over? What is more important to unlock the mystery or to live life? This is a very difficult question. Both are important! But one thing is sure. We shouldn’t stop living while we try to unlock the mysteries of life. We may find some answers while trying to do the same, but the answers will be of no use because life itself will be over.

Sunset in Mantara Beach California, Usa 

When there is frustration and  disapointments,there is only hope for better life.

Life is not a movie and you are not a star. Yet we think!

While performing worldly activities be untouched by its atractions.Never anxious for results. Dedicate all activities to god. Because without divine grace personal efforts cannot be fruitify. It is only when love of almighty shower and at the same time we are receptive to it. 

Every day provides an education. Must it also, though, provide a limitation? Must you keep abiding by rules that you ought, really, to have left behind years ago?Because lately you have felt most unfairly restricted. Something or someone keeps telling you what you can or can't do - and you feel unable to challenge the authority of this law-maker. Just keep on being willing to learn. Any moment now, you'll make a discovery that nobody can argue with and which eventually becomes part of a process that sets you free.   It's not just in the movies where it's now getting ever harder to tell who and what is right or wrong. In your emotional life, you face a quandary, as dramatic in its own way. From an early age, we are subjected to experiences that bring us little or no pleasure. We soon learn that if we don't find a way to 'put up and shut up', we may end up enduring what we are not enjoying for even longer. Perhaps this is what gives us our strange capacity t

When is a retreat not a retreat? When it's a march down a mountain you've already climbed. Sometimes, when the descent reaches an extreme pitch, the only sensible action is to slalom or spiral downwards. It may look from the outside, and even feel on the inside, like we're doubling back on ourselves. But, eventually, after several twists and turns, it becomes obvious how much progress we're making.  Don't be afraid to return to familiar territory especially if it's the only way finally to put something behind.  Sometimes, everyone needs reassurance and comfort.