They say that if you find a successful formula, stick to it. You can relate to that. But sometimes formulae get results in spite of, rather than because of, their intrinsic merit. Think of the way kids try to avoid cracks between paving stones. They fear that if they fail, the monster will get them. So they do not fail. They avoid those cracks. And as the monster does not subsequently get them, they feel they have proof that their plan has worked. How many imaginary monsters are you avoiding in your emotional life now? It's time to relax! We praise candour and admire honesty, but just imagine what life would be like if everyone said what they thought. We often fall out with one another quickly and easily enough, even when we know only a tiny fraction of what's going on in someone else's mind. If we could hear the whole unexpurgated version of their opinion and they could hear ours, how could we ever exist again? Some truths definitely need to be told But not all truth
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ever has an easy life. We all go through difficult experiences. We all find ourselves in circumstances that we wish we had never entered and wonder how we are ever going to get out of them. But never is that the full story of our lives. We all get to know joy and happiness too. There are times when it seems almost impossible to remember the good because the bad seems so bad. But then, when life is good, it is so good that it makes everything seem worthwhileYou were born under the sign of the lion. You can be, by turns, a ferocious creature and a cuddly pussycat. You can inspire both awe and adoration. Yet you do not always make the most of your natural charisma. It is as if you forget the effect that you have on others and sometimes imagine yourself to be unprepossessingly vulnerable. But even when you think you are making little or no impact, you remain a force to be reckoned with if someone had managed to survive such an unnerving experience eighteen times, they might well have rea
In this strange world everybody has his/her own complaints-huge list of complaints. Dictatorship is a habit,as everybody loves to dictate-authority to do whatever is sweet will imposed on dependents,I was going through a book in which reported a 10 year boy,a talented table tennis player who committed suicide because of his father's punishing regime of 10 hours of practice a day shows that emotional and psychological abuse is a serious problem . There is a competition among parents which force their children of excel in fields of education dance or singing-games. They want all rounder accomplishments. Parents push their children to absurd limits, unaware of the the mental trauma in young minds. Every 30 seconds a child goes missing in India,mostly victims of abuse-sexual,verbal,mental or physical assault. Its a serious problem and precautions should be taken to tackle these serious problems. In my opinion everyone must be alert everywhere,because when a child is not safe at
I t's always been about prioritising and focussing on what you can commit to. Out of clutter find simplicity. time. Living in the moment. 2. Being a spectator to your own thoughts especially when you become emotional. 3. Better to be loving than right. 4. Grateful for at least one thing every day. 5. To help others every chance you get. I mpulse,energy,courage and independence - instinctive and dynamic, they make big mistakes because of impulsiveness and accused of being self-centred, but it is not so. They can be romantic, they need love and reassurances. Sometimes they express themselves in a rude and violent way, they live love passionately, but they are not a good example of faithfulness. Their fascination is due to their being unforeseeable,this characteristic sometimes leads to a behaviour which is aggressive and weak at the same time.
DO NOT FIGHT WITH YOUR AGE,EMBRACE IT,WHAT EVER IT IS. Aging is a fearing factor for all of us that is why we see millions defying their age by artificial ways. Fact is we do not want to be aged. But time waits for no one and when we grow into a mature person we start worrying. Stop worrying and accept the fact gracefully. Yes aging gracefully is an art. When we are afraid ,we find reasons to not do the fearful things. Escapism-discard it. Try everything for if you never try how can you know your capabilities?Do not convince self shift your mind to be productive because when you are not productive you are in your comfort zone. MOST IMPORTANT IS TREAT YOURSELF WITH RESPECT AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY,MIND AND SOUL. This is your own time-PRIME TIME. Stay connected with your age group people and talk about your concerns,fears and everything you want to share. I feel suffocating myself when I view self in the mirror, face lines changing. Accept the nature. Stay healthy and feel go
Do not spoil your mood,do not hurt anyone or later you strongly regret. Staying calm and cool while dealing with day to day pressures,distractions-it is a mature way. Ignore tremendous stress there is no other way to keep your cool. Use your imaginations and creativity,not to wear your heart on sleeves discriminate your genuine well wishers and pretenders.
When You feel you are in the midst of danger and negative circumstances. You must be true to your principles and profound ideals. If you resist with courage, being always faithful to your sense of justice, you will soon be free of this period of adversity. Do not go on the first impression. Try to understand what is hidden deep down under the external veil. Try to avoid unwanted events. Studies show that for happiness,providing support is just as important as getting support. By offering support you generate good feeling in them. So asking and receiving favor is good social gesture as we come closer to each other, we feel happiness because it is basic human nature. Asking for help is asking for support or favor which can be selfish or selfless and you can be generous by asking. Type of support or help depends on what type of it is- borrowing a huge sum of money is not a good thing or asking to take care of your child,house or pet while you want to tour is burdensome.One should
Shampoos are to wash your hairs only,do not get confused with the informations loaded through ads.I have been using simple soap and rinse my hairs either with one tbs of lemon juice in one ltr. of water or lemon rinds soaked before and use it as conditioner,giving bouncing healthy hairs. Another homemade recipes which I have been using- is oiling hairs before washing. Plain shampoo will do the needful. Use rose petals or marigold petals-soaked in water hot water,use this water to rinse hair when water cools. A handful petals soaked in three cups of hot water.Diet plays important role. Include fruits,salads, yoghurt,beans-fresh juices to your diet. Regular care is needed. Apply henna monthly. Deep conditioning helps to restore beauty of hairs.almond oil nourish the hairs. you may apply curd half an hour before shampoo
