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If you succeeding in cheating someone,do not think he is a fool,realize that person has trusted you much more than you deserved. Never ignore someone who cares for you because some day you would realized that you have collected stones and lost diamond. But it is O.K to change focus from sadness to happiness.
One should know when to speak,what to speak and how to speak. One has to speak for self ,so do not  keep quiet when you have to speak for yourself to protect self-interest. avoid overconfidence and enthusiasm.Show maturity,or it would kill you emotionally. You may wonder would you still enjoy life and be looking at life with improved- clarity of mind. How you would be handling your affairs,would be still dream of visiting places you have in dreams.Laying firm foundation and inspired many people by led by examples in real life. Living in this world in not easy as said so art of living must be learnt,full knowledge of results of our actions and complications one would be facing while fighting for survival in this strange but worth living world.Inspirations and hope are two essential ingredients for life's tough situations.
 We are here to enjoy the gifts of god. Life is to enjoy. First we need to own up our responsibility   of our action for instance if we put  hand in fire it would be painful. I  have done this to me but we may say fire  is responsible for my pain. In a relationship we are doing our best but still it is not working because  we are doing what is expected of us unwillingly which is cause of our deep rooted pains.  Our complains are like I have done this much for may family but what did  I get? Or I am doing such and such  for my husband,to make him happy.It shows that I was not willing to do but has done- in a perfect way to please him or for his happiness. We are not doing whatever we are doing wholeheartedly which is creating negativity and coming back to us.To break this cycle of negativity I have to do all whatever I have to do accepting I am doing this and this for my husband,wife,son, friend or even to a stranger for happiness. I want happiness and trying to create it. Everybody
As human being we form impression too quickly, set strong beliefs about the things and people around us. Though we watch everything and getting clues too but still tend to think- It's not for me! May be we want to go deep and like to find out matter ourselves. Circumstances change rapidly and we become dumb stuck.Sometimes we react but most of the time we think it was just the way things could be when it is not-as things would never be again like this and if you lost this chance you may repent later. Do not venture in future,now is the perfect time. At such time we hope change would bring us respite still worrying inwardly  about results of changes. To get desired results collect inner strength and act. Make sure yourself first. Future is always bright it is we who do not make most of it.Chase long cherished  dreams and aspirations. You must learn how to wait without accelerating  time,unite with virtuous people so that you en richen one another-keeping your own personality to act
Every experience of life adds to our knowledge and self worth,when we love ourselves,we would be happy because then we are self-reliance. We get knowledge from education, surroundings,environment and specially from our family. Engage self in digging into our internal goldmine.Our love for self is basic material to overcome difficult time and circumstances. When we are in flesh and bones we feel scary about everything,specially feared about unknown. We are growing with world automatically,without putting self efforts. Our inability to accept the change and living in comfort zone also create fears.Accepting what is in our lot and loss can elevate the quality of our life because uncertainty would always be there in our life. How we tackle our problems and situations will decide our success rate.Life is a journey –our own journey from life to death. Heart is a pilgrimage where you would have a cleansing bath. One cannot change the course of life but attitude can change our perceptio
Noble heart is beauty of character which create harmony everywhere resulted in peace and happiness. Pain or happiness both have more intensity while we are anticipating the,pain is more painful and happiness is having much joy than actual experience of happiness! Present moment is always pregnant with future perceptions and wounds of past create pain while we remember them,past is still hunting us then. Its a common practice.Meditation is practising present here and now forgetting past and future.Its success depend upon manipulation of outer world and stabling self in what ought to be. Experiencing self worth as a worthy son or daughter of god,and how we feel about self in terms of our skills,experiences,achievements and status. Our basic need is to climb social ladder and we lost in indulgence-passions or greed for more of the more which ends with this body. We think that we know self better than any body else and who else can know us? Experiences  would force us to re-think and t
 We are confused by darkness of delusions and selfishness. Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile. We tend to imagine,imaginations are unending whereas knowledge may be limited compared to the imaginations.Only love has power to change a man,only love can make him new. But now, love is the most exploited thing in this world,how could you know that love is real? Vast  world of love and joy is already within! God has already revealed compassionate love and understanding for all,for god is approachable and knowable. Human beings have divinity within  one could realize him with self-efforts. Whatever our outer circumstances may be,we can learn to live each day in continual joy and security which can be found at the deepest level of our being. Soak your whole being in the wisdom and divine love that is pouring into soul and flooding heart and mind. It would require a miracle to come and pass,put  your total faith and efforts to know Him. Cry and pour your heart at the alter of

WAKE UP INDIA-AN HT INITIATIVE

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An Indian woman is subconsciously more alert and aware of any imminent danger in the form of a male predator. She knows where to go, when to go, and when not to go. She places unreasonable restrictions on herself to protect herself. It's like living in the jungle. Or the wild, wild West. Even after all the possible precautions, things can and do go horribly wrong. But they say it is a fair world. She can seek redressal from the law. It's a different matter that the law takes its own time, and she may never get justice in her lifetime. From the time she is a little girl, she has to watch out for herself - from the men in the family to over-friendly teachers, bus conductors or any other man she may encounter. She is told not to be too friendly with boys her age, and to concentrate on her studies instead. In school, she is encouraged to study humanities (science and commerce are for boys, she is told). College for her is an extension of school. The same set of social rules ap

BE YOURSELF AS YOU ARE!

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You were born an original do not die as copy. But we tend to copy and refuse to accept our originality. We are not satisfied with what we are. Upgrading is not bad but dissatisfaction is something different than upgrading. We were born unique. We are made in image of god. We knew our powers but focus on weaknesses this is the main reason of our problems which are created by self. Never ready to accept the responsibility of our actions.This is human nature. The more fault we find,the more faults we find there is to find. The more blessing we count,the more those blessings start to mean us,this is a good reason to focus on the upside of everything. We are on a journey and this is continue births after births.So we carry forward our Sanskars of past  lives,Planets,atmosphere do effect us what is being told to us by predictions of astrologers  Astrologers make predictions to warn us and warning are helpful, not to threaten you,those are informations which are given to you to help you,to

OUR CHOICES

In day to day life we face different situations and have to decide,have to say either yes or no, saying yes  is easier but  by saying No may save you from many troubles. So Saying yes or no at appropriate time is an art. One can use may be-possibility.But decision taking is difficult. Sometime you may find that someone is preventing you to reach your goal and that in none other than you,your own cold attitude may be the reason. Relax and open up to other to get desired results. Self control and self discipline is always required in any case to prosper and keeping harmony in relations .Jyoti means light and Ish means God. Combination of these two words in India is Jyotish or astrology which we consider as help in our lives. Happiness is a state of mind which is a decision. It is possible only when we are able to accept everyone as they are- at every moment and in ever situation.True happiness is not dependent upon externals but we are in the habit to search here and there,in things,in

WE

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There is no distinction ,no map and no difference in this beautiful round EARTH.It is- we who have created all the mess and fighting. View this wholeness and become one with it forgetting all differences and clashes. On the one hand we are busy in back stabbing, on the other preaching love,peace and harmony. View this beauty and merge self in love.

LIVING ALONE

One has to face time when he is alone,or wanted to be alone. It is human nature that when we are among people we would like to be alone and whenever we are alone we wanted to be with our loved ones. Being alone may be a blessing in disguise. When you are alone you can introspect and know who you really are! Now it has become a necessaries for some to be alone while chasing dreams of profession or study,may be left alone by being widow or widower. One may choose to be single for rest of life. Choices may be forced or willing one,you need to be stay fit and organised as being alone does not men to be irregular in any case in any field of life. Whenever I am alone I enjoy a lot. I would like to go out to meet relatives,go for shopping or meditate. Keep alive sweet memories spent together with loved ones.When you are alone your mind is active and independent knowing you have to cope every situation alone-better. Do not allow others to overpower you emotionally.Stay active and alert,keep
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All cures and pains lies in our brain. Pains which are real one and not fake one can  be controlled through power of mind.  There are many examples  of person who had suffered severe pains,even some have crippled hands or legs with arthritis that they may lost all the use of them, some have many serious problems like cancer but in thoughts and suffered as it were real one. Treated well by psychiatrists.  Some are chronically tired or had vague aches and pains but their exhaustive medical examination showed that nothing wrong with the persons in physical sense. All is in their mind and they suffered real pains,whatever may be the reason but the question is how we can help such persons to get rid of their pains?  Through sincere concern for their problem and slowly trained their mind to cure these ailments. None but the person himself could help self,the person might be interested  to get rid of his problem- only this is the possibility. Listen to others as it is cry of such person dem

HUMAN NATURE AND LIFE

If you view life as a project,be patient for the project you have in hand as you are solely responsible for that. In this project suddenly you may have to sideline your preferences for your loved ones. At deeper level you want to spend your time for self-recreation thus this situation can be  stressed when your head and heart pulls you to different directions. When you lose concentration,your logical and analytical abilities gets weak. Then you may tend to be escapist which will only increase problems for you. Rights and duties go hand in hand-you can not avoid one while seeking the other. Sometime you miss something in your life but not able to identify it. This is life. Sometime you may feel restless sometimes enjoying every moment of life despite your performance may not be so encouraging in your chosen stream/choices you have made earlier. Wait and watch policy is best option rather than acting in haste and repent later.Life is a mixture of good and bad events.Domestic and offici
  You must be true to your principles and profound ideals. If you resist with courage, being always faithful to your sense of justice, you will soon be free of this period of adversity. Adversity and favour are part and parcel of one's life so we have to accept both. God has given us the gift of life it is up to us how we spend it. Enjoying gratefully or condemning -complaining for this or that. If you view life as a big question or mystery forget about answers or clues to the question or mysteries of life. Because all the guess work/solutions or answers would change with time and person- on this planet. Is it not wonderful matter that we keep on guessing   or consult astrologers to get answers or clues,which we will never get. Mysteries or question create excitement and excitement is glue which binds events of life and help to lead a purposeful life. But remember excitement should not change into anxieties or fears.
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  If your want support of your loved ones,you must approach them first. Whenever   there are difficulties in your life then and it is worth you stopping and reflecting. When something doesn’t work, do not blame someone else and look for possible causes in you. Remember you can always lean on someone you have trusted for some time but you are the only one who  has to own up own responsibilities of your own life demands.But for god's sake never lose your heart as time is testing your strengths- come out as a winner!

GOD

We suppose- gods as Supernatural beings who may be able to conceal and reveal themselves for their own purposes, as  in the tales  or as described in holy books . In addition, according to concepts of God, God is not part of the natural order, but the ultimate creator of nature and of the scientific laws. Since God (of the kind to which the arguments relate) is neither an entity in the universe nor a mathematical object, it is not obvious what kinds of arguments/proofs are relevant to God's existence. Even if the concept of scientific proof were not problematic, the fact that there is no conclusive scientific proof of the existence, or non-existence, of God. If we cannot reduce talk about God to anything else, or replace it, or prove it false, then perhaps God is as real as anything else. Here on Earth planet people are who are believers and people who do not believe in god's existence but for own sake we have to believe in god's existence to lead a calm and peaceful -purp