If your want support of your loved ones,you must approach them first. Whenever there are difficulties in your life then and it is worth you stopping and reflecting. When something doesn’t work, do not blame someone else and look for possible causes in you. Remember you can always lean on someone you have trusted for some time but you are the only one who  has to own up own responsibilities of your own life demands.But for god's sake never lose your heart as time is testing your strengths- come out as a winner!