DESTINY

I KNOW MY OWN POT HOW OTHER BOIL—FRENCH PROVERB.

  BE INWARDLY AWARE OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELING AS THESE FEELING MAY BE NEGATIVE.WHEN YOU ARE NOT ENJOYING WHATEVER YOU ARE DOING THEN IT WOULD BE DIFFICULT TO MAINTAIN A  BALANCE, UNITARY INTEGRATION OF POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE EMOTION IS NECESSARY. OUR BELIEFS ARE LENSES EVERYONE WEARING AND SEE THROUGH IT.BELIEVING IS SEEING RATHER THAN SEEING IS BELIEVING.THAT IS WHY EVERYONE INTERPRETS THE CONCLUSIONS IN HIS OWN WAY.

WE ARE UNIQUE AND HAVE INSTILLED THE SURROUNDING BEHAVIOURS AUTOMATICALLY OUR BEHAVIOUR IS INFLUENCED BY GENETIC AND SURROUNDING INTERACTIONS, ESPECIALLY  IN EARLY LIFE,IMPRINT POWERFUL MEMORIES IN OUR BRAIN  OUR MEMORIES WHICH GOVERN ACTIONS, MEMORIES SET OUR BEHAVIOURAL PATTERN. INFLUENCED WHOLE LIFE.

 Though we can change our destiny by strong willpower and efforts.Thoughts needs tremendous processing capability of brain and it can only be achieved if the mind gets rid of some existing memories. Our continuous thinking firm our  beliefs and if we think over happy moments we feel happy and if we think over unhappy moments we gloomed,happy moments automatically dissolved  unhappy moments.

Rising and falling are part and parcel of our life.whatever is beyond our control,is the will of god.So no need to question or challenge.  We run after money,name and fame game.Every body wants to be leader and nobody  wants to be a servant that is why there is need to servants.who can serve family or individual. Simplicity is needed.

Love is patient, love is kind,it does not envy,it does not boast,not proud or rude because it is not self seeking.Love does not delight in evil but rejoice  with the truth ,it always protects,always trusts, always hopes and never fails. Love is love but man has brains, but all in the world want  to buy love . But all the powers  on the world have failed to subdue love. Man has chained and fettered the spirit but he has   been utterly helpless before love. Love is warmth of life and magic power to make a beggar a king,love is free.

 MEERABAI on love—Unbreakable o lord is the love,that binds me to you. Like a diamond  It breaks the hammer strikes it.

Mind is innerself,talking endlessly it is self,vital force which makes the mind  think. In fact our thoughts rules body and rest of the world.It arise and  dissolved in self.

WITHOUT ATTACHMENT DO THOU ALWAYS PERFORM ACTION WHICH SHOULD BE DONE. FAR,BY PERFORMING ACTION WITHOUT ATTACHMENT MAN REACHES THE SUPREME. AS THE IGNORANCE MEN ACT FROM ATTACHMENT TO ACTION, O ARJUNA, SO SHOULD BE THE WISE ACT WITHOUT ATTACHMENT WISING THE WELFARE OF THE WORLD.---GITA.

NEVER HAS MAN REACHED HIS DESTINATION BY PERSISTENCE IN DEVIATION FROM THE STRAIGHT PATH.LIFE IS AS SUCH THAT WE CAN NOT WITHDRAW OUR CARDS FROM THE GAME,WE HAVE TO ACT.A STRONG LIFE FORCE MAKES A HUMAN BEING TOTALLY ALIVE ALERT, AND PRESENT A WEAK LIFE FORCE RESULTS IN SLUGGISHNESS AND FATIGUE.  GIVING RIGHT AMOUNT OF ENERGY FLOW WILL MAKE ANY PERSON VIBRANT AND IT CAN ENHANCE ONE’S MENTAL CAPACITY. WHO DEVOTED EVERY OUNCE OF ENERGY THEY COULD USE INTO DAILY ACTIONS. ACCEPT THINGS WITH COURAGE AND GRAVITATING TO THE HEART OF THINGS.

TRAVELLING CAN HELP A LOT TO RENEW YOU ENERGIES,YOUR SELF WORTH AND IMAGE, DERIVE GENUINE SATISFACTION FROM CARING FOR YOUR SELF AND YOUR LOVED ONES,UNDERSTAND PEOPLE FEELINGS WITH AFFECTION AND CARING INSIGHTS.

GLORIFYING SUFFERINGS TAKES US AWAY FROM GOD AS GOD IS HAPPINESS. SUFFERING ARISES ONLY WHEN IDENTIFY WITH PAIN AND IGNORANCE.SUFFERINGS KEEP US SAD AND HURT BECAUSE WE CHOOSE TO MAKE THEM SO. WHY DO YOU CONTINUE to let someone hurt you.

We don’t let go things and person or circumstances that hurt us,we punish us. What had happened years ago still hurting you,is it not sound funny,but this is fact,sometimes we are too blinded by the hurt  unable to see things clearly.Take active part in now and release your pains. First acknowledge the cause of pain then work through it.

Allow yourself to bring up a painful memory you have avoided at the very first time. Don’t hold back

no one is you,forgive is not a one step deal,resentment,anger and realizations are different stages,you are going through. You are not at mercy, past is gone but its thorn is still pricking,pain is deep down inside and pretending g that it is not there would not do.

LOVE IS PATIENCE, LOVE IS KIND,IT DOES NOT ENVY,IT DOES NOT BOOST, IT IS NOT PROUD,IT IS NOT RUDE,IT IS NOT SELF SEEKING. IT KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS. LOVE REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. LOVE ALWAYS PROTECTS  ALWAYS TRUSTS, ALWAYS HOPE, ALWAYS LOVE AND NEVER FAILS.

BENJAMIN FRANKLIN—HE THAT FALLS IN LOVE WITH HIMSELF WILL HAVE NO RIVALS.