PRETENDING

Pretending that change does not occure and living as before will create a lot of problems.In other words  flexibility to handle life changes and circumstances is an art and not everyone is adaptable to such developments.Acceptance is required and we fail to accept. Acknowledging certain circumstances will leave you in best situation.Flexibility is first step,acceptance is second and inner struggle to face new circumstances .Dealing with change without letting you affect you is challenging always.The head and heart balance maintained and recognising the differences which makes a difference. Every body is expecting from you is too much Now morals,ethics and needs are different,they expect more but not co-operating you in response to their demands,so it is hard. Leading life with peace and harmony is not every body's cup of tea.

Everybody is busy in race to get noticed. Notice what they do and how they do,here the problem is.To meet dreams work hard.Inability of each side to understand the problems and needs of the other,be comfortble  in dealing with uncertainity.Understanding the demands of person related to you and situations,giving much time to demand is relevant.Learning never comes at one place and from one time and sitiation,it emerges from new crop of time.In real life there are no retake or rewind button.

If you do not have five star lifestyle,you can have five star mind,it is in not trying what you actually not.Believe in yourself and put your feet firmly on solid ground, chart our your our own course instead of taking the easy way out or simply following the trend. You should not sink into someone overpowering you,empower self and be accountable for the problems ,take charge of your own life.

Do  not force others to follow your lifestyle and tastes,face confrontations boldly but live life on your own terms.When we work forcibly we wished to switch off and let the work passes by you- while doing some work exhaustion or irritation is resulted or you need much needed respite  from daily routine work. The attitude to love your work can be adopted for peace of mind. It would  be better to talk together about differences than ignoring them. But for god's sake do not have doubt the other person's intentions as it will take your happiness away,love has assurances while doubt only raises blood pressure or bring tensions.

The more honest you are  with yourself,the more successful you will be,so stand on principles. Nothing is gained by shouting or gained by complaining. Though it will poil everything bu good natured supporting silence and behaving as if nothing happened feel different,but this experience will add something in your life.When you understand by nonverbal expressions,learn to handle anger and other negative emotions. Beginning to improve is nearest to binding a relationship which is going to shattered.

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