HOW TO LOVE

LOVE IS WHAT HELPS YOU COMPREHEND THE WHOLE—J. KRISHANMURTI

NO ONE CAN TEACH YOU HOW TO LOVE IF YOU COULD LEARN HOW TO LOVE FROM BOOK AS WE LEARN MATHEMATICS,THIS WOULD  A MARVELLOUS ,THERE WOULD BE NO HATE,NO EXPLOITATION,NO WARS,NO DIVISION OF RICH AND POOR AND WE WOULD BE REALLY FRIENDLY WITH EACH OTHER. BUT  LOVE IS NOT EASY ,IT IS EASY TO HATE- LOVE IS DIFFICULT. YOU CAN LEARN HOW TO LOVE BY PUTTING ASIDE HATE. HATE IS FOR DISAGREEMENT SORT OUT THEM FIRST. DROP IT AND BRUSH IT ASIDE.DO NOT LET HATE TO ROOT IN YOUR MIND,MIND IS RICH SOIL  SO HATE WOULD GROW FASTER AS A WEED. THEN YOU WOULD HAVE PROBLEM TO ROOT IT OUT. IF YOU ENCOURAGE HATE, GIVE IT TIME HATE ARISES AND THEN YOUR MIND WOULD BECOME VERY SENSITIVE.

MIND CAN PURSUE SENSATION,DESIRES BUT CAN NOT PURSUE LOVE. LOVE MUST COME IN MIND .  A MIND RIDDEN WITH SORROWS WILL NEVER KNOW THAT WHAT LOVE IS LOVE NO DIVISION ONLY DIVINITY-DIVINITY IS EXTRAORDINARY THING ABOUT LOVE. LOVE IS SOMETHING FRESH,ALIVE. IT IS INNOCENT,HAS SUNLIGHT  ENDLESSLY WHICH IS  THROUGH SACRIFICE,THROUGH WORSHIP, THROUGH RELATIONSHIP, THROUGH SEX, THROUGH EVERY FORM OF PAIN AND PLEASURE IS POSSIBLE ONLY WHEN THOUGHTS COMES TO UNDERSTAND ITSELF AND LOVE HAS NO OPPOSITE OR CONFLICTS.

LOVE IS IN FREEDOM.GIVE SPACE AND FREEDOM TO LOVED ONE.

Love  is something,we grow into higher conscious,love is inside and all around us,love does not come from another person nor it can lost since we are being of love,then whether in a relationship or not,we are always enjoying an internal state of love. See divinity in each other,many problems will be solved but we are not always at the same mental wavelength so dependency issues or monetary issues broaden the gap and break-up happened.  

We chose such patterns which offered us growth and happiness and these are the should we would like to interact with many ways in life,so love is human need and not let  go loved ones out of your life. Value love,appreciate love and loved one . Try to provide  perfect environment for growth of soul as loved one are precious than anything else in this world.Love is keep going the whose existence, so courage to face bad times is earned by love-powerLife is mixture of ups and down,we should not blame god for it,collect thoughts or things why they are the way they are? Your existence is essence of this world as you are here to enjoy god’s gifts and outcome of you Karma’s.

Small selfless acts give a pleasure to all. Active and purposeful life, one should not feel left out.Feel closer to god and forget all other shortcomings of self and related to you.Pledge not to hurt anyone mentally or physically.then you are serving humanity sincerely.

Talking polite and determination not to hurt others produce the same result. Your smile or polite language have healing capacity and rarely seen now a days. Positive vibrations create better atmosphere,charge your batteries in right direction.love for god,love for its creation,love for self,expand love to larger  groups pure and selfless love is needed badly now,in this world. Demanding obedience is disgusting,shared views increase affection,new values and concerns.

We are combination of male and female energies, and greatest challenge is to balance both energies equally, this is true spirituality. On a higher level,problems are self generated. Family, friends,husband-wife or any relationship are souls level and such people we feel familiar with.

All connections are emotional,and some of them are intensely emotional, some of them identified with other patrons of abuse,abandonment,love manipulation, power struggles,rejections and intimacy, all are there so that we may learn from those and grow from.

Sometime it happen that we are intensely in love while the other person  is willing to move our,we feel stucked, reframe love,love is loving if the other person does not love you,love him but free him from bondage.Accepting emotional self and choosing not to be hold captive by emotions,freeing self and the other person will bring much needed respite.  Learn how to disengage from one and break free from dependent bond that has been formed previously. All is for growth,development and evolution,as imbalance in relationships can often lead to depression suffering and sometimes tragedy to relationship,it’s a bigger picture for both partner to learn and grow from the experiences in their own  way.

Whatsoever you do, do with love.Love has nothing to do with pleasure and desire. Because when you love,there is neither respect or disrespect. What is love- to love without hate, without jealous, without anger without condemning without our heart,mind and entire being is there any comparison as where there is love – you love with all your heart,mind and faith and with all your body. When you totally abandon yourself to that love.

Love is happiness,another form of god we experience when we feel good and search only goodness in everything. Happiness is essential fir well being in all of us,fill us  with positive energy,creativity increased and you attracted positive creative person in your life bringing the best in you do you give yourself a quality time. Enjoy,read a book or go for outing whatever you like do it. Our happiness is result of our state of being. One can be happy without doing anything. True happiness is not getting something or who you are? We need love,it is essence of our life. If we have love in our life,we would be happy and state of mind would be positive.He would have peace and spread the same where ever he would be.
 He would have feeling of gratitude,even for small things like getting up in the morning and executing his jobs well by grace of almighty.