POINTS TO BE NOTED

Communication is not just exchange  an exchange of words, but  an expression of a deeper understanding of one another. It is said that one can be lonely in crowd when one is not connected with one another.

Forming opinions and likes or dislikes which sum up our personality, what' s the use if one does not analysis self. Whether we like to be connected or avoid some one or not express self are indicators that we are lacking self confidence. We do not have a sense of  self-worth. We are humans and in the habit of interaction and staying connected with one another,relationship grows this way, making right moves in our lives.

Problem we face when the other is not trying to understand what we are talking  and ceases to be indifferent or react and the person whosoever trouble to listen to us and interested in our problems,have understanding  of our pains can change entire outlook.So why we talk, to convey our feelings or want solutions of our problems or just to pass time together.While complaining, getting annoyed or getting upset  is not right way, it is a beggarly thinking which destroys the fragrance of our life and kills the hopes of living a constant life.Right actions and thoughts always bring much needed relief.our life.


Religion is among the oldest human institutions. Life without  religious faith and belief is devoid of meaning . Desire  to seek something other than ourselves,the ideal which is within each one of us. We get trapped in sense gratification and material comforts and possessions,all around us.But what we actually get,disappointment and dissatisfaction.

 We all have special liking  for something or the other and rush towards it.We feel bad we do not get that,produce anger and clouded our vision and very often we get trapped in –forget higher values of life and right conduct. We want the thing at any cost,by any means right or wrong.just or unjust. After gratification of desire another replaced the later one.One get drunkard with success and delusions.

So desire is the barrier that separate man from god. Desire is devil.  Cure your desire’s and all delusions will disappear. And thinking of objects, attachment to them is formed,from attachment comes the longing and from longing anger grows,from anger comes delusions,and from delusion comes loss of memory and loss of memory ruins the intellect and from that the person perishes. So work,it is better to work than not to work, but when you work do not desire  its fruit because once desire comes you are caught,Our happiness does not depend on materials or any other conditions, only converting state of mind from worldly things to inner world will give us happiness.


Deeper examination of self will reveals substitutes, so try to see from other's point of views to get proper view.Honesty, hard work and spending more time to improve self is way to success and satisfaction which is every body's need,emotional need. Life is nothing, it is all about managing time and people effectively,so keep your cool and enjoy every moment of your life.Work satisfaction and little respect every one is looking for;learning to connect relevant people sticking to just points and agree to disagree is most important in every field of life whether it is professional of personal.


Competitors and the person who criticize us are our most valuable  teachers, it is our choice whether we face them or ignore them and live as we had been living. There are other type of people who fear to face them and hide themselves, they refuse to accept the challenge and lacked the knowledge to see bigger view  and its impact on their own lives.

This age is of competition  and who do not ready to face would be left behind, see students facing hard competition while getting admission in good schools or colleges, then at workplace hard competition to get a chance. Systematically and tactfully one has to go through all, keeping in mind that our life is based on interdependence. From food to official matters,home to relations - whole world is now as a connected like a city,we do not know from where we are getting what and who are the people helping us directly or indirectly.

Crux is that we are related to everyone,religiously or practically for all of our needs,whether emotional,physical-mental or spiritual. Trust,faith,mutual understanding and most important is love, which keep going on this world. Keep your cool and help by contributing the world your best co-operation.



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