COMPLEX RELATIONSHIP

 NO ONE RESPECT OR BOTHERS ABOUT THOSE WHO DO NOT FIGHT FOR THEIR RIGHTS.

aMONG ALL THE MYSTERIES OF THE UNIVERSE MIND IS THE MOST INTRICATE NO BODY CAN SOLVE IT. nOT EVEN THE MOST ADVANCED QUARK THEORY WILL BE ABLE TO EXPLAIN ,WHAT IT BRINGS IT TOGETHER AND WHAT MAKES IT TICK.

ITS TRUE THAT ONLY A WOMAN CAN MAKE A HOME COZY, COMFORTABLE , ONLY A MOTHER CAN NURTURE HER  FAMILY

Love is human need,love and inner peace  ONE COULD not HAVE BY controlling or dominating. it’s a light that shine and warms but it does not push and shove- waNTing not to break the SACRED place and silence. to quench this thirst,we create family as we want to be loved and love someone,and family is our own creation.

family faces are magical mirrors ,reflects the people belong to us, ESPECIALLY our own creation has much joy. We see our future,present and past in babies,their childhood we enjoy,their raising is our duty and RESPONSIBILITY and support system for future, a mutual DEPENDENCE at every stage we have.

 But GUARDIAN reports how indian values are not as before,children are helpless as they get stucked in careers and family,each one feels to be EXPLOITED  Consumerism has gripped everyone no one has time for each other,bonds of love are not as fond as were in past.

AUTHOR gitanjali warned in her book ‘the great indian family’  that unit called family is under CONSTANT pressure,with working mother,extremely professional fathers and children working in call centres,the family has no time for togetherness,everybody has its own world and privacy is demand of every family member.love is lost somewhere.love generate energy and worth, we feel special. hEight of things is that now family has working mother-in-law, working daughter in law,working all family members –not coping up the situation therefore everybody is confused and trying to please self by INDULGING in compulsive shopping to beat the stress- but this is not solution to the problem.

In a globalized world suddenly family name is no longer important,you,your COLLEAGUES and how you perform at work define your social status  and standinging. Marriage  is not important,so family is going through total TRANSFORMATIVE stage-where FOCUS is not FAMILY  PRIORITIES is not family-love,traditional values and duties have to redefine. irritation creeps in relationships due  to lack  of time, not spending time together,why parents are having children when they DON'T have time to raise them.

MARRIAGE IS A PARTNERSHIP WHERE BOTH PARTNER TOGETHER RAISE THEIR CHILDREN AND IT IS A SPECIAL BOND BETWEEN PARTNERS. NOW WHEN DECIDED TO HAVE NOT A CHILD MARRIAGE IS AT RISK. wHEN A PARTNER WITHHELD SWX WITHOUT ANY REASON,DECISION TO HAVE NO CHILDREN OR ABORTION OR STERILIZATION WITHOUT CONSENT OF SPOUSE,NAGGING BEHAVIOUR,INDIFFERENCES AND FRIGIDITY,DENIAL OF COMPANY,FILTHY LANGUAGE AND VERBAL ABUSE, FALSE ALLEGATIONS COMES UNDER MENTAL CRUELTY AND INCREASE COMPLEXITY OF MEN-WOMEN RELATIONSHIP.

Everybody is struggling for existence,love and care. Indian women cooking skills,housekeeping and other jobs are shifting that is why FEMINIST GERMAINE greer said in her book, the whole women when the family was required to gather around the dining table for meals at least once a day-snack food were unknown. the food provider was directly responsible for her family quality of life, she could display both authority and skill plus express her love and care for the family by the effort- she put into the dishes she brought to the table that female role is now irrelevant and disappeared with her entry into workplace
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only a wife and mother can take care of personal needs of her FAMILY and husband,but these jobs are tiring and hard to follow now as her husband ,children and she herself is busy,it is right  that only mother can NURTURE HER family well.