WHAT WE GIVE TO OUR EMOTIONS,A MEANING DECIDE THE EXPERIENCE WE WILL GET. BECAUSE ATTITUDE IS AN DECIDING FACTOR ,SEEING A FRESH PONY MANURE ONE MAY FEEL REPULSED AND WANTING TO GET AWAY,WHICH THE OTHER MAY BE HAPPY TO GUESS THE HORSE MIGHT BE ANYWHERE AROUND. OUR LIFE WOULD BE MUCH SIMPLER IF IN THE MIDST OF OUR MANURE WE WERE ABLE TO LOOK FOR THE PONY.

WE TEND TO THINK UNCONTROLLABLY,ASSUMING WHAT COMES IN OUR THOUGHTS ,WATCH FOR------A WHALE IS NOT A FISH
                                                             A PEANUT IS NOT A NUT
                                                              A TOMATO IS NOT A VEGETABLE!
Thoughts create realities,just sit an ask yourself thoughts may be wrong,emotionally charged conflict situation,by peeling things back to a reality stripped off judgements and stories we allow ourselves for the freedom in each moment to choose how we would act?Ask what could actually happen,the worst would be failure only.Anger,blame,indifferences,remove by analysing your thoughts.Change the shifts.

Do not believe that the essence of our humanity lies in the emotions.Make your life more enjoyable and workable.The issues such as survival,controlling others and fears all spontaneously resolved by balancing you thoughts.