Women you probably don't need to do much. A tricky situation looks more daunting than it is. The more you think about it, the more complicated it will become. Try something simple. See what that does. You may find no further action needs to be taken. If you still don't have the result you seek, attempt yet another gentle modification. Nine out of ten problems will solve themselves if you play your hunches. Your imagination is either your greatest enemy or your best friend, depending on how constructively you employ it.What would it really feel like if you were able to know, down to the last detail, what lay ahead for you? Extremely useful though this might be in some respects, it would remove a great deal of the magic from your life. It would render you powerless, too. Faced with a future that you had no influence over, you would be like an actor, reading lines that someone else had written with no ability to alter the outcome of the drama. Be glad then of surprises that can sometimes turn out to be truly wonderful.There are times when you wonder if you ought not to be more assertive. You watch other people acting belligerently and, though you find this behaviour distasteful, you have to concede it gets results. People take notice. Things change as a consequence of all that noise and fuss. You are quite capable of making an emphatic gesture when you need to and you are wondering if this is a good time for it. It may be. If you are going to speak out, think carefully first about what it is that you actually need to say... and to do. . Even if such an aim were to be attainable, why would it be desirable? Your strongest characteristics are your greatest assets and if they cause you trouble every so often, that's surely a small price to pay for the many blessings they confer upon you. By all means continue to wish that enables you to help others. But think a little harder, about your own self-interest too.