Are you trying to reconcile mutually exclusive needs? Are you trying to balance ideas that conflict or people who don't want to co-operate? What kind of a miracle do you really think you can perform now? How much will it take out of you, even if you actually can work magic? Dramatic action always has a certain appeal. You may feel tempted to make a strong, sudden move. You are far better off being wise and restrained. It's as if you're trying to avoid a situation that has already happened. Relax. The worst is already over!
How much excitement do you want? How many intense emotional experiences do you feel you need? Do you have to get caught up in some great drama? Must you deal with problem after problem? Sorry to ask all these questions, but then questions themselves can be so very destabilising. As soon as we start to ask them, we begin to chip away at whatever is making us feel most stable and secure. You can't just ignore an unsatisfactory situation, but nor do you have to give it your full attention right now Imagine if one day we all wake up to find we are living in an ideal world. A new dawn, a new deal, a new Jerusalem (let's hope it's more peaceful than the old one). Will anything really be different? Well, it will be for you because, whilst your situation remains far from ideal, you are at the start of a big turning point in your emotional journey. You may have your doubts and reservations but you can put some faith in what's changing. It's not the start of a new and ide...
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