When you feel as if some crucial aspect of your life is remaining frustratingly static. Yet the right kind of change is happening for the right reason. Trust this.When is a problem not a problem? When it is helping you to recognise the existence of an opportunity. If you weren't so upset about a silly situation, you might never have been able to summon the determination necessary to create a vital change. But recent events have shown you just how precariously balanced an arrangement now is. A plan is not working as it should but  there is a chance to put right things in place.

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