There is nothing like knowing how bad things can be to heighten recognition of how much better they have become. But for you to be blessed with the best you don't have to start with the worst.
Whenever we are not feeling at our best, we become hypersensitive to people's attitudes. Some minor remark, which might otherwise go straight over our heads, gets interpreted as a harsh criticism. Some task, that might otherwise prove simple, turns into a daunting mountain. Once that happens, we feel even less at our best than we did before and thus we overreact yet more to the next incursion. Yet it only takes a small, positive development for everything to change.
You have become used to an uncomfortable climate. Overpowering experiences have caused you to expect difficulty at almost every turn and, though recently things have begun to look up, you have come to the conclusion that you should continue to be wary of trouble. You have made psychological provision for this, creating various personal defence mechanisms. Of course you want to be free. Yet what else do you want? Security? Comfort? Companionship? To enjoy any of these advantages it is necessary to sacrifice a little liberty. Routine comes at the expense of spontaneity. Relationship comes at the expense of independence. Life is a balancing act and we are all pivotal points (if things are calm) or desperate jugglers (if things are not). Right now, you are trying to reconcile what appear to be several mutually exclusive needs. Relax, it's not as big deal as you fear. . It's time to remember that you are not some small cog in a giant machine. You are important. You are entitled t...
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