Clear and crisp. Cut and dried. Sorted. Settled. Resolved. Nice words, aren't they? I understand how dearly you want to hear them - or to be able to say them - in connection with a matter that is driving you to the edge of exasperation. I dearly wish that I could promise you such an outcome. Actually, I can, though not in the immediate future. First, a process must play itself out. Specially when you are dealing with something that, one way or another, you are going to have to learn to live with. That's really not as impossible as it sounds.