We,very often tend to think that we have complete control over our lives and we create things for us, it is  that god has given us powers to manipulate and manage the world. And here we slide into deceptive reasoning that we can control our destiny too! Forgetting that we are children of god and god has given some powers to us, but still he is the master. We enjoy gifts of god,we are allowed to do  certain things.Actually we are puppets of god but imagine doer ship,egoistically.
Love is a special gift of god,when we direct love towards god it is divine love which will then flow through us into everybody. Tagore-"He who loves find the door open".  In love we find god's grace, joy,we get joy in doing small things like loving someone without self interest. Love has melting effect your ego will melt away and you will find HIM everywhere.
All vacuum will fill up with love. You will experience overwhelmed experience of bliss. You will be experiencing a state where you can feel only and unable to explain-the joy We are fed up with our belongings or relations soon but god's elation is as such we never want separation of a second. Experience of bliss will fill up your whole existence, a tingling sensation which will never fades away. It is ecstasy, what more you can ask for.                  
                                   Love is man's  reality
                                   Devotion is man's divinity
                                   And surrender is man's immortality.
Love is essential nature of humans and all living beings. And it is not against the  nature of inclinations,love is easiest way to realise god, so love all without any self-interest or motto.