CRISIS OF OLD AGE........1

we can help self by making our will strong and promising self : we would not suffer whatever state is.  In this way  we refuse to worry and grieve over present state of affairs,which we do want to have in life. In this way we would conserve our inner and physical energy and make the right efforts. Physical diseases and emotional
imbalance only add to our worries.

Find a mid way to cope present situations well and surely one can search out a way to face the problems boldly and reach the goals.The person who resist and become wholly obsessed with some ambitions until their perspective in life is warped and distorted. Again  self control and self motivation helps.

But a stage when one grew old and helpless,depend on younger s- is a terrible stage.In India alone,about eight million above eighty, twenty nine million above seventy plus and seventy  seven million above sixty and in urban areas sixty four percent elderly women and forty six  percent elderly men fully dependent on others. Whereas ten percent do not have anyone to take care of. Twenty seven million elderly are ill and they think themselves, a burden. They are talking about their status in this world, lack of money, no work to generate money due to poor health and mobility, lack of leisure's is a distant dream for them.

Educated one who has money but no one to care and their support system  young people believe to have through elderly parents neglecting them totally. They have four walls to talk with. They feel not only  neglected but disrespected too- by their own children, due to old age-for ugly looks-for everything. How young generation is  taking  responsibility by separating mom and dads,pushing parents to smaller rooms.Ill behavior is common thing