INTROSPECTION...6

People are happy when they are better off than others. But happiness diminishes with the money they earn as later on they work harder and harder to earn more, this give no time for leisure’s or rest.  So never  misled by money power. There must be flexibility in nature, learn to deal with different people and situations to avoid headaches and confusions of life. Learn the art of living and straightforwardness.

Let others know your capabilities and never blow your own trumpet. Cultivate strong presentation and conscious efforts to push yourself limelight ,Hardwork,loyality and intelligence are always rewarded. Use exact words to put your emotions into words. Emphasis on your capabilities and way to convey others your feelings. Changes take place every where in the whole world and all will change automatically and ultimately to save their existence.

The effect of happiness fades  away rapidly, what was luxury in the past becomes today’ s need, a form of pollution. Having enough is not enough, its greed. Jealous a destructive force it arise when we distrust and suspiciously watch others and are envious. The happiness of others causes jealousy which turns  into misery.

Moreover the brilliant students who excels in their studies or profession and influence global opinion but now every one is excelling or trying to excel,now you cannot discriminate. Unknowingly we are busy in creating bondage with the person, when we jealous and become belligerent, competitive-repression or aggression of it is not benefied,we suppress  it and the body pains or similar disorder create physiological problem. Therefore pollution of thoughts needed to cleanse ,do not ignore-or suppress  the ill feeling for cleansing do yoga,exercise or jogging help one to release negative emotions.

Here is a method sit in a room, close the doors bring your jealousy into focus as a strong  flame as possible, burn it and now let the  other negative emotion like anger-let it take it as a strong flame and burn  anger in that fire. So  do with sadness,hatred and possessiveness and you will see it yourself that by merely watching and doing all this exercise in mind will relieve you, you will feel light. You had witnessed your thoughts,then identity is broken , you see all your moods are transitions and leave us in constant chaos. To transcend dual emotions, including  joy and sadness,hate and love- it is essential to witness the pairs. Thease dualism co-exist and cannot be transcend in isolation because when we watch the  other, which is the surface and trap us. To transcend hate love has to be transcended.

If you diminish your hate,your love will disappear,that is what has happened. You have been tought not to hate and the total result is that you have become incapable of love”.---Osho.

 So participate in the happiness of others, just by being happy person you create the situation in which  your own flower starts blooming”. So open your heart- although arduous in the beginning – it works and jealousy stops impacting our lives.

Be happy and content with your lot.There is always a chance to experience inner and outer richness in our life. Great masters give us keys to live happily and at ease with others richness as a society. Others may be happy in terms of having huge possessions but possession do not always translated into happiness as material possession is associated with many tensions. Ask a rich man how happy he is-He yarns for more and more and thus makes his life hell, on the other hand we think money can give us happiness because we don’t have and we have no experience of having it.Accepting desires and pleasures as happiness results in vacuum.

We are not happy because we have lost inner link, we have forgotten who we are? Turning away from self creates vacuum.  We try to fill it with indulgence – as a means to happiness- materials gives  a reflection of happiness,it’s a flirtation. Humans are  circumscribed thus their thinking is relative and fallible by time and space, neither the body nor the mind remain constant. Human’s have no choice but to carry on with the uncertain and put their knowledge and skills to test of trails and errors and again to modifying them