You never like feeling sidelined, overlooked or undervalued. When you suspect that others aren't treating you with the respect you deserve, you cannot help but want to give them back a taste of their own medicine. But if their bad behaviour is unconscious, they may not even know what they are doing or saying so they can't see why they have caused upset Wouldn't we be ill advised to imagine that our own luck, in real life, would hold good for that long? Who, for example, would want to take on a problem that was guaranteed to hang around for ages? And, no matter how much we might like a particular type of chocolate, would we really want a bar that we never got to the end of.  Wouldn't it be wiser for you to take all that into account and thus lower your expectations accordingly?There's a good example of why it isn't always good to know in advance, what tomorrow holds.'
 What really makes an item or an event 'special'? Surely, it is not the cost; it is the amount of care that has been put into it.