why you feel perplexed. Something doesn't look right or feel right The root of the problem lies further back. It is not complicated. Nor is it especially difficult to fix. will it push you to look at what you have been trying to ignore. Once you have seen it in more detail you will understand it better. Then you will have the way to set it all straight at last. Tension is learned behaviour. We see others giving themselves a hard time and inadvertently we copy them. Just as kids think that it is cool to smoke, we imagine that it is a sign of adulthood to be harassed. You have absolutely no need or reason to be anxious about anything, brings your chance to grow younger and grow wiser.