The temptation is to throw caution to the winds and to rise to your current challenge. When someone annoys us, it is usually because they have characteristics that we ourselves possess. If we feel at all uncomfortable about our own tendencies to be, for example, insensitive, oversensitive or thoughtless, we are much more likely to baulk at the sight of those trends. We are more tolerant of those with faults that we don't (or think we don't) have. All you need is to create an atmosphere of calm confidence.Delusion is dangerous. It doesn't mean all your choices are unwise.Trust yourself, and that will be easy.How can you be sure your dreams aren't just empty fantasies? Apply your optimism and insight to a plan that's got to be worth pursuing.