WHY WE ARGUE

 Gone are the days when atheists sat around apologetically and let the deeply religious people make all the noise. It is finally becoming safe for you to express a view that might once have been controversial.Life has its ups and life has its downs. If these were always distinct and separate, we would at least know where we stood at any given moment. If we knew we were on an up, we could just relax and enjoy it. If we were definitely dealing with a down, we could steel ourselves for a tough time. It is when the two experiences intermingle that we become a little confused. Should you be smiling or frowning today? You may have to keep changing your facial expression but at least there will be some very pleasing ups!You have amazing energy available to you, great potential power and immense, intense, influence. If you are determined enough, you can make almost anything happen or at least begin the process which will eventually lead to the success that you so desire and deserve. Summon your concentration and give your all to a campaign. These are hidden messages given in astrology.
 Why we argue? Why kick up a fuss or put up a fight? Why rise to the bait or heed the call to action? Why not just sit in a corner, covering your eyes and ears, hoping that eventually, all of it will go away? Well, one good reason why you can't do any of that is because you are not made this way. You are a giver, not a taker. You believe in getting things done and making a difference. For this, you are to be applauded. And if it means that you incur some criticism and disapproval? Well, that's someone else's problem, don't make it yours.Where do your priorities lie today? What must you protect at all costs? And what can you afford to be a little more easy-going about?

We all like to know about the rules and regulations that apply to our circumstances. We feel somehow more secure when we know what's expected of us; what we are supposed to be doing, what we really must not even attempt or contemplate. Attack is not always the best form of defence. Sometimes, indeed, it is the worst possible plan, in so far as, ultimately, it is only going to leave you with even more to defend. The best possible form of defence, is defence! Put yourself in a position where you feel safe. Make practical changes to ensure your protection and then address the kinks in your psychological armour. Refuse to allow yourself to feel fearful of things that possibly could pose a threat but probably won't. Life now offers you a rare chance to overcome a weakness.
We might at least be managing to illustrate the futility of asking too many complicated, difficult questions in your current situation.  When You are trying to tread too delicately or you are worrying far more than you should as does he know what you know about what she knows? And does she know that he knows what you know? And what if she knows more than he knows but she doesn't know you know? And... well... I'm getting mightily confused by all this and I hope that you are too.. An no matter how busy you may be - or how much pressure you feel you are coming under - you really should take a few moments to review such matters lest you inadvertently defend a position that you might have been wiser (and safer) to sacrifice. Be conscious of what constitutes a genuine advantage and see the difference between that and something that sounds good in theory. 
Yet an intense awareness of all these limitations and restrictions, does us few favours. It inhibits imagination. It quashes creativity. It depletes the ability to discover. Don't dwell too long , on what's stopping you from making progress. Just look at what might prove possible.There are times when it is not advisable to be assertive or insistent. We may gain a sense of satisfaction from expressing ourselves in this way but we may also do more harm than good, alienating those who might otherwise be willing to assist us. They see the amount of fuss we are kicking up and think, ' Well, they are clearly quite capable of coping on their own.' Or perhaps they think, 'I had best not get too involved lest I end up being blamed if things go badly'. Be gentle now and you will yet get all the support you need.
Like attracts like that is why 'When you wish upon a star, your dreams come true.' So goes the song in the classic Disney cartoon. And on this point, I am in full agreement with the late, great, animator. But in my experience, there are caveats. You actually do have to wish on the star. That means, you have to see the star - and then tell it what you are wishing for! If you just sort of look vaguely up at the sky and say, 'Well, actually, I don't really want anything.' You will reduce your chance of gaining that boon. 
Tell the heavens what you want from them today.We all like to be thought of as reasonable. Even if we don't feel inclined to support someone or lend our weight to a cause, most of us will try not to be obviously churlish. Thus we collectively create the impression that the planet is populated by extremely fair-minded folk. You have recently become keenly aware of how unhelpful some individuals can be. Yet your faith in human nature is about to be restored. It turns out that you have someone on your side, just where you most expected to encounter an opponent.What does fate have in store for you? A rude awakening? or a delightful surprise? How could you possibly think that fate is even remotely interested in facilitating a sharp or unpleasant experience? Isn't deep and lasting joy the one and only destiny of every human being? Well, of course, it is.
 And if we end up with any other experience, we are simply not fulfilling our purpose! Have just a little more faith in fate and prepare soon, for what's really right to start happening in your life at last.Was this world created by some superior intelligence? Or is it all just a spontaneous accident involving random mathematical forces? I do not wish to intrude into what I know has become a passionate debate. Feelings, on both sides of the argument, run high.Be careful always and remember a little knowledge is always dangerous thing for all alike.