Breathe in hope.We define ourselves by where we come from, what we do and to whom we belong - and by our tastes, preferences, hobbies and habits... yet a lot of this can change. None of us can be really sure who we truly are. It's that very sense of uncertainty that makes us so keen to cling to whatever seems permanent. Something (or someone) is changing. In so far as you have drawn some sense of identity from this, you are feeling insecure. Truly, though, you're finding yourself, not losing yourself. And that's wonderful.Why are we all sometimes so stupid? Because if we were any smarter, we'd be too clever for our own good. Why are we all so ignorant? Because if we knew more, we'd have nothing left to learn. Why are we all so crazy? Because you have to be crazy to live here! There are reasons why the world is as it is. Of course, we can try to change it but we should remember that the quickest route to improvement involves learning to like whatever we have previously objected to. The key to happiness,  is flexibility. So make the most of this moment to grow and evolve. Now if you want to grow,help other people who need you. Work on spiritual elevation to reach important goals.