Take it steady. There's no need to drive at full throttle, regardless of how much engine power you have at your disposal. Even if the road is clear, you should set the cruise control to a nice, safe speed. When you see a reason to slow down, do so. When you get an invitation to speed up, reject it. There's no point, no need, no advantage. You don't now have to fight, struggle, learn some hard lesson or go wild in any way. To stay on the road to emotional comfort, just stick with what you have started and keep going where you're headedKids sometimes deliberately call each other nasty names. They pull faces and use tones of voice that are deliberately intended to goad and rile. Kids, though, can afford to be provocative - for they are blessed with an amazing ability to forgive and forget. Yet when grown-ups get mad, they stay mad, and thus must be very careful about who they upset. Someone, who ought to be old enough to know better, is now acting like a big kid. But you, of course, are not going to be drawn down to their level..