LIFE AND YOU!

Hurry up. No, no. Quicker than that. Faster. Work harder. You don't like my tone? I'm only emulating the voice in the back of your mind. The one that keeps nudging and nagging. You are not obliged to listen. Not to me, and not to that. Despite the tension that you are so aware of, something wonderful is starting to happen. You are getting what you need, in your emotional life at least. With each passing day, as long as you resist false pressure now, you can come a great step closer to a most delightful destination.
There's something you just can't believe. It makes no sense. It is beyond logic and comprehension. How can it possibly be right - or even real? What's going on? How have things turned out in a particular way despite all your efforts to prevent this from happening? It is very important not to become anxious or uncomfortable. Your power to change a key situation is much stronger and greater than you may imagine. You just have to be a little more adaptable as you pursue a plan that is close to your heart.There has lately been much uncertainty about the best way to proceed in a delicate situation. You've got one plan, someone else has another but nobody is sure of the right answer. Well, I say nobody. Somebody is sure. But that somebody may be wrong! You can't rely on confidence and nor, really, can you trust in doubt. What can you do then? How about... nothing. Or at least, as close to 'nothing' as you dare get. Let time pass. Stand back. Don't interfere or intervene. Soon, what's murky will become clear.
If you can't discuss something, you can't hope to understand it. If you can't understand it, you can't work out whether it is functioning properly or not. Communication is essential now. For some reason, though, you are reluctant to embark on a topic of conversation. Either you feel the topic is controversial or you think that there is no point in giving it any attention because you will be none the wiser, no matter how much energy you devote to it. If, though, you keep talking to someone, you will gain a precious insight. 
So many strong emotions. So many powerful passions. So many obstacles, so many difficulties. So many reasons to look back on the past and wonder what happened. So many uncertainties about the future. So many fears, so many doubts, so many questions. These are the things you seem to have a lot of. Shall we look instead at what you have only a little of? You have a little hope. You have a little insight. You have a little time. You have a little imagination. That's all you need. You can forget the rest!
 .Let us imagine that you are charged with the responsibility of transporting new-laid eggs from a farm to a market... by bicycle. There, in a nutshell, is both the sensitivity of your current emotional situation and, the difficulty you have in dealing with it. Should you carefully wrap each egg in cotton wool? Should you just try to get the journey over with and hope for the best? Should you negotiate for a more stable form of transport? Ignore all suggestions of haste and pressure. Just go slowly and take care. Hindsight, they say, is 20/20. But opticians, apparently, say that it is actually possible to have 'better than 20/20 vision.' I bet, in psychological terms, that's when you look back, realise what you should have done and discover that, somehow, it's not too late to fix at least some of the consequences of not having done it. You are looking forward now with some trepidation. Why? What are you dreading? There is nothing to be intimidated by, or afraid of in your personal or emotional life now. Move on!