Once bitten, twice shy.' That's what we say when we want to explain our reasons for keeping a distance from particular people and situations. If we had a negative experience, we really don't want to repeat it. If we just blithely wandered back into the same troublesome territory, wouldn't we be extremely foolish? Yet might we not be sillier still if we were to put up a psychological barrier on the basis of flimsy justification and thus miss an exceptional opportunity? Be more open to a positive possibility.
Every moment has the potential to be magical. Indeed, there are some who say, that if so much as a single moment passes without bestowing an experience of magic, this can only be because its passing is not being properly noticed. How many magical moments do you need to make this a weekend of wonder? Just one will do the trick! If we assume that a moment lasts a couple of seconds, then, from here till this time  that's 129,600. Make the most of just one of these and all else that you need will come.