Who is on your side? And whose side are you on? These are not always easy questions. Even those who support us most energetically will disagree with us from time to time. And, no matter how loyal we may be to a friend or loved one, there will be times when we disagree with them.We want to be understood and respected,but can't make sense of somebody else's point of view - and they seem to be missing your point, too. A slow, gentle process or a reconciliation and communication will fix this if you are patient.