We all yearn to find empathy and support from like-minded souls who 'get us'. These are fine hopes to have but they become tricky when we inadvertently project more affinity into a relationship than it actually warrants. We may 'imagine' we've got a friend when what we've actually got is an associate. Or we may choose to see an admirer as a soulmate because it fits a romantic fantasy. Health is wealth,take care of your health.