WONDERFUL WAY

If there's something you want, why can't you have it? Okay. Let's stop and qualify a few things. First of all, let's go back to that phrase, 'why can't you have it?' and insert the word, 'eventually'. Most things can happen over time if people are patient enough, can't they? So, let's go further back. This 'something' that you want. How badly do you want it? The desire has to be pretty strong and deep if it is to motivate all the time and energy that must be dedicated to fulfilling it. But those, really, are the only caveats. The rest is up to you.
Nostalgia', they say, 'isn't what it used to be.' Or at least, that's what they say when they are trying to be funny. But nostalgia is still what it has always been. A way of getting misty-eyed about some part of the past. Either we convince ourselves that it was all much better than it really was or we decide that it was worse and we exaggerate the bad memory so much that we will make any sacrifice as long as we feel this prevents us from having to go back there once more. But you sorely need a more measured view this..a chance to renegotiate a vital aspect of an arrangement, adjusting the one thing that has proven hardest - and creating a future in which a commitment is easier and more rewarding to keep up. Even if it seems now as if you face a problem, you will soon see the big opportunity that is hidden within it.
There are some things that we are simply not meant to know. The future hides itself from us. Whilst sometimes, it can be coaxed into revealing a glimpse of what it has in store, it may remain coy despite the best efforts of the experts. Hence your current situation. Could you not have predicted this? Should I not have alerted you to it? Well, actually, I tried. But you needed to make a discovery in your own way, in your own time. Now you have done so, naturally, you will soon see it is not bad but wonderful in its own way!