People say things like, 'Just put your feelings aside and then ask yourself what's logical.' Why do they say that? How can they keep a straight face? Are they automatons? Have they no heart, no soul, no spirit? How are you supposed to rise above your emotions? By what magic mechanism can you disconnect from your deepest passions and most profound yearnings or sympathies? How can you put your feelings to one side if your feelings represent the essence of who you really are? Beautiful people often think they're unattractive. Don't be shy to recognise and use what you've got access to.