People believe what they want to believe, which is why they see only what they want to see. How then, can they ever be persuaded of anything? That's easy. Just find out what it is that they want to believe and show them something that seems to support this - but also suits your purposes. Now you know the secret, here's a question. Who has recently been subtly manipulating you? It's time to look again at some of what's been recently suggested. It could all mean something much more positive.