'If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail.' All statements like these pass for conventional wisdom in some quarters. Yet nothing can quash the power of spontaneous invention quite so effectively as rigid adherence to some agreed schedule or preconceived idea. Those who fail to allow themselves room to manoeuvre can box themselves into unnecessarily tight corners.
Be glad of a situation that's now becoming a little wild and crazy. It may yet provide the momentum with which to bring about much-needed change for the better for situation never remain the same.
How much excitement do you want? How many intense emotional experiences do you feel you need? Do you have to get caught up in some great drama? Must you deal with problem after problem? Sorry to ask all these questions, but then questions themselves can be so very destabilising. As soon as we start to ask them, we begin to chip away at whatever is making us feel most stable and secure. You can't just ignore an unsatisfactory situation, but nor do you have to give it your full attention right now Imagine if one day we all wake up to find we are living in an ideal world. A new dawn, a new deal, a new Jerusalem (let's hope it's more peaceful than the old one). Will anything really be different? Well, it will be for you because, whilst your situation remains far from ideal, you are at the start of a big turning point in your emotional journey. You may have your doubts and reservations but you can put some faith in what's changing. It's not the start of a new and ide...
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