Adults used to be keen to teach children their table manners. 'Hold the cutlery this way.' 'Don't speak with your mouth full.' Yet many today, don't even seem to know what a dining table is, for they eat off their laps, in front of the TV screen. But at least they understand the social etiquette of texts, when to reply and whether to include kisses. You now find yourself in a situation where normal rules of engagement don't seem so relevant. But there is still a 'form' that you would do well to identify and adhere to
Attack', they say, 'is the best form of defence.' But just because they say this, it isn't always true. The very best form of defence is actually a blank refusal to be on the defensive. Those who are open, generous and fair, those who act with integrity and honour, the people who are sensitive and understanding, why should they ever want to attack? If someone would be misguided enough to attack them, their best form of defence would be to say, 'Hey, what's your problem? Shall we talk?' Your kindness is your greatest asset. Weigh the situation and words.
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