BE KIND BE LOVING

So be kind, be loving. 

Say I am beautiful only because I have endured the pain of becoming a butterfly. 
I could not stop myself from smiling and then I was wondering that how can I make my life a celebration.When I come to know life has to face a big jolt like cancer.

Every butterfly goes through pain to become one. We all go through own painful experiences in life to come out better and shinier. The hard layer on our soul has shed away after the painful experience and then the divine shines through.

 We all have divine inside us. To celebrate after that, it is important to focus on the beauty of that moment rather painful experience of what we have been through. It is important to  the beauty of life and search for flowers. We can do that by finding the things to be grateful for. We need to make a list of beautiful things in life and dance around them. 

We need to  realise that if a flower looks beautiful it might be protected by thorns. Similarly, we might have to embrace many difficulties to reach to the beautiful flower. At every point of time, we would find flowers as well as thorns. It is up to us, where we want to sit or rest our mind upon. We might like to dance around flowers like or blessings or we can sit on the rocks or the difficult things in life and feel sad about the hardness.

 Be grateful for what you have, what you are receiving and be happy about that. We are conditioned and have been told that we should not be sad. Not feeling sad is different and suppressing sadness is different.  If you are sad, accept it and then work on it, rather than avoiding it.  Our mind starts working upon whatever we want. It is up to us if we want it to work upon negatives or we want to work with what is good in life and how we want to feel.So that mind can work positively every day.  Like every day we have to eat food to make sure our body has enough energy, we need to take a positive emotional food every day