WOMAN - on a spiritual journey

Just as you can't "make" other people happy, don't expect others to "make" you feel happy or good about yourself.Accentuate your strengths and assets. "Should have, could have, would have ... " Try not to constantly second guess yourself, criticize yourself for what you "should" have done better, or expect too much from yourself.  I AM ...The best!

Don't feel responsible for everything. Don't feel guilty about things beyond your control. Replace criticism with encouragement. Don't bully yourself! Don't bully yourself! Accept flaws and being human. Accentuate the positive. Nip negative thoughts in the bud. Avoid exaggerations.

We're constantly told that life is a competition.  What really matters in life - our happiness, and that of those we love.   You can win if need be. But do you really need to prove yourself? Aren't you perfect just as you are? Wake up everyday and tell nice things to yourself. Treat yourself with love and everyone else with love. If you do not treat yourself with love,you cannot treat others also with love. 

, Monaco

So be kind, be loving.   Say I am beautiful only because I have endured the pain of becoming a butterfly.  I could not stop myself from smiling and then I was wondering that how can I make my life a celebration.When I come to know life has to face a big jolt like  cancer. Every butterfly goes through pain to become one. We all go through own painful experiences in life to come out better and shinier.  The hard layer on our soul has shed  away after the painful experience and then the divine shines through.  We all have divine inside us.  To celebrate after that, it is important to focus on  the beauty of that moment rather painful experience of what we have been through.  It is important to   the beauty of life and search for flowers. We can do that by finding the things to be grateful for. We need to make a list of beautiful things in life and dance around them.   We need to    realise that if a ...

Do not forget that in life, nothing remains unchanged and everything evolves through transformation. You must learn how to evaluate every situation with the correct amount of modesty. If you are living a moment of success, re-dimension your enthusiasm; If on the other hand you are waiting for a development be patient; everything turns and renews itself.  

Whatever we do in life is to be happy and if we are not, it means we need to take an action and change something. We cannot change in physical  world , what we have to change is what is inside us. Once we are able to alter whats inside us, we would see the change around us too.  Celebrate yourself, celebrate your life because this is all you have! Be happy and be a reason of others happiness  too.

You can't just cut someone out of your life because they often seem to bring conflict or controversy with them, wherever they go. But you can make a decision not to encourage them or to become overly embroiled in the dramas that they seem to be creating. Politely but firmly, lovingly but clearly, you can keep a respectful and respectable distance from situations that could too easily escalate into disagreements, even stand-offs. Better to let neutrality be misinterpreted as bias than to join a campaign that's probably destined to fail. . You won't be able to find fault with many of the explanations you get or the promises that are made. But are you sympathising with sincerity or responding to rhetoric? Don't dismiss a suggestion, just because it's being presented in a suspiciously articulate fashion. Don't automatically give extra favour, either, to guttural grunts. But maybe try listening less and looking more. Look right into someone's eyes if you want to...

Himalayas .

Better by far to be open to what may be possible than to be closed minded, overly opinionated and unwilling to accept explanations that run contrary to your expectations. Enough is enough this weekend. More than enough is too much. And too much is going to prove more than you can cope with,   to persuade you otherwise. You don't have to settle for less than you need but you ought to be properly aware of what you actually do need - and refrain from going further than you have to into territory that's full of hidden implications and additional complications .

योगी कभी मौत से नही डरता, जैसे पका फल स्वयं ही गिरता है ऐसे ही उसकी मौत होती है. मौत की दर्द कम और अहसास ज़्यादा होता है,हमारा चीज़ो से लगाव,दुनियाँ से,रिश्तेदारों से सबसे ज़्यादा अपना अस्तित्व खो देने का अहसास बहुत दुखदायी होता है. हम मान,उपाधियों से फूल जाता है और अपमान मे मुरझा जाता है,यही मन ही दुखों का घर है.ईक मन साधे सब सध जाता है I

 Find yourself tempted to reveal hitherto unexpressed feelings? Be honest and true to yourself, and you'll find that there's a good chance that your generosity will be reciprocated.   Just remember that actions speak louder than words, and act accordingly!  T he key to relationships is communication. But what you don't say matters just as much! It's probably, for a good example, advisable to keep quiet when someone's mannerisms remind you of their parents.

SONE DE HAME: UMAR BHAR JO HAME BEWAJAH HI RULATE RAHE, SUNA HAI HAME YAAD KAR AAJ WO BAHUT ROYE HAI...... HUM TOH BAHUT DOOR NIKAL AAYE HAI UN RAHOUN SE, KI UN RAHOUN MEIN HAMNE BAHUT MOTI KHOYE HAI....... JAB TALAK SAANS THI WO SAMAJ NA PAYE KABI HAME, TOH BALA FIR KYUN KHADE WO PALKE BEGOYE HAI... UNSE KEHDO KI HAME NEEND SE NA JAGAYE KI, ISS BAAR HAMNE PALKO MEIN BAHUT SE SAPNE PIROYE HAI.... MUDKAR WAPIS NHI JANA CHAHTE HAI UNKI BAHOUN MEIN, JAANE KYA LIKHA THA US ISHQ KE KALME MEIN .. KI AB USKI CHOKHAT MERA MADINA HO GAYA...! ISHQ SE JUDAH RAB KAHAN HAI BATA ZARA..... SADAH ISHQ KI HUI TOH RAB KA SAJDA HO GAYA...! ISS ISHQ KI LAKEER SABKE HAATH MEIN KHICHI HAI... TABI TOH KHUSHI SE BARA YE GAM SABKO GWARA HO GAYA...! PHOOLO KA DAAMAN KAANTO SE BARA HAI ... PHIR BE KYUN BAWRA AWARA HO GAYA....? HASTA HUA DEKH YUN APNE DILBAR KO.. DIL KYUN AISE PARWAANA HO GAYA...? KHUDA KA NOOR HAI CHALAK RAHA ISS ISHQ MEIN.. SARE AAM AB TOH YEH AFSAANA HO GAYA......

VARANASI

Try to help others as well  as you can.When  you have achieved what you desired and Your objective and success have been reached, At this point you must simply refine some particulars. You must maintain what you have built: everything changes and so it'll be necessary to be careful that you don't lose everything. External circumstances regularly change quickly. You must consider however that the most intimate essence of man is unchanged over time. Give what you have to grow. Grow like a tree to give fruits.