Life is not a movie. Or if it is, it is one that is being filmed, not watched. Great cinematic spectacles have the music added afterwards, which may explain why you are not hearing any violins in the distance right now. In the absence of such accompaniment, you are having to create your own soundtrack by imagining the contribution to the atmosphere that such orchestration might make. Might you be adding more poignancy and drama than necessary?
How much excitement do you want? How many intense emotional experiences do you feel you need? Do you have to get caught up in some great drama? Must you deal with problem after problem? Sorry to ask all these questions, but then questions themselves can be so very destabilising. As soon as we start to ask them, we begin to chip away at whatever is making us feel most stable and secure. You can't just ignore an unsatisfactory situation, but nor do you have to give it your full attention right now Imagine if one day we all wake up to find we are living in an ideal world. A new dawn, a new deal, a new Jerusalem (let's hope it's more peaceful than the old one). Will anything really be different? Well, it will be for you because, whilst your situation remains far from ideal, you are at the start of a big turning point in your emotional journey. You may have your doubts and reservations but you can put some faith in what's changing. It's not the start of a new and ide...
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