LITTLE THINGS

You deserve a better, brighter, future. Why shouldn't you have one? What stands in the way? Just possibly, the greatest, if not the only obstacle, might be your own idea of what a better, brighter, future might be like. You've got a clear view of how you would like things to be. But are you seeing the only way in which things could turn out well? Are you ruling out some of the possibility which might prove just as satisfactory, if not significantly better? The cosmos is keen to please you, allow it a little flexibility.

People used to sell encyclopedias. They would travel from door to door, offering their wares and promising the untold wealth that only knowledge could ever supply. 'Every answer, to every question that you could ever ask, is within this set of books.' They'd say. There was no internet back then! Now, we all suffer from information overload. A problem in your life now, is at least partially linked to the fact that you know too much about something or someone. Still, you need to know more before you reach a judgement.

Confucius said, 'The only people who never change, are the very wise - or the very stupid.' Neither you, nor I, are stupid. If either of us resist change, it will not be because we lacked enough intelligence to see a reason to adapt. But are we amongst the wisest? I can't speak for you, but I can tell you that I definitely don't classify myself in this way. I aspire to wisdom; I don't necessarily always have it. So that can't be a reason why I would resist change. Now, what about you? What change do you now need to embrace?

They say, 'If you take care of the pennies, the dollars will take care of themselves.' Well, sometimes they say pounds or yen, or euros. The terms vary but the principles don't change. Deal properly with the small stuff and the big stuff just won't be a problem. But to some extent, that all depends on how big the big stuff is. If it is really big, you just can't give it the attention that it deserves if you are also grappling with too much trivia. 

Something big and positive is now starting to happen for you. It may be worth redefining a few priorities. Words have power to either sooth you or disturb you not when you have heard those words but very often when you go to memory lane! True intimacy involves emotional closeness, not just physical bonding. Feeling vulnerable and accepted and loved at the same time create trust  and a connection that feels overwhelmingly good. We are eager at starting point and assurance make us careless -we do not give that much attention to relation. But still we do not lose emotional bond so give quality time and attention to nurture any relationship with dedication.