MAINTAINING REATIONSHIP
In human relationships we boast of love,care and sweet memories but irritations,tensions and bad taste in relationships do exists. Later children were used to be silent and obey what parents say but now they have voice and talk like a stranger. Every one is experiencing this state,blessed are few. Parents suffer much because they had invested much time,love and affection and emotionally tied to their children. Problems are deep seated in children and have no solution-they had been observing since their childhood. Other type of problems can be sorted out as both are willing to fill the gap.What to tell about hurt,which parents suffer due to their own children attitude.What about the suffering children faced in their childhood when parents fight or argue loudly and they do not know what to do.
INTIMATE ATTACHMENTS ARE THE CENTER OF A PERSON'S LIFE. ATTACHMENT BETWEEN PARENTS and child begins before birth and provides comfort and security to the child,feelings of closeness to and affection for a parent are the most basic indicators of attachment. We all need emotional support,love and concern from our loved one so why not we try to fill the gap as we need each other. Spend quality time with parents,talk about their concerns without irritation. Parents should accept their children as adult and honor their decisions,give suggestions when required,be there as support system where they can find peace in difficult time.
WE CAN NOT CHANGE THE ISSUES EXISTING,BUT WE CAN DO OTHER THINGS TO BRING CLOSENESS IN TACT AS BOND BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILD IS PURE AND LASTING.FORGET BITTERNESS AS WE CAN NOT UNDO PAST. BY GIVING YOURSELF A CHANCE TO KNOW EACH OTHER AS YOU ARE TODAY,APPRECIATION FOR OTHER PERSON GROWS,FEELINGS AND SITUATIONS OF YESTERDAY ARE PUT IN PERSPECTIVE AND ACCEPTANCE COMES EASILY. TO WHAT DEGREE ARE THE CONFLICTS CARRYOVERS FROM CHILDHOOD TO ADULTHOOD? WE CANNOT CHANGE THE PERSON BUT THERE ARE THINGS WE CAN DO.
THIS IS NOT AN EASY PROCESS AS OLD CONFLICTS MAY EMERGE. BUT LOOK FOR NEW SIGHTS. BE HONEST WITH YOUR FEELINGS AS A SON OR DAUGHTER,AND REMEMBER WHAT YOU GIVE WILL COME BACK TO YOU. IT IS A PAINFUL TOO BUT YOU HAVE TO DO TO REMOVE CONFLICTS AND FILLING THE GAP WITH MATURITY. THIS NEED HONESTY,SELF ACCEPTANCE AND WILLINGNESS TO RECONCILE.ONE DAY CHILDREN WOULD BE PARENTS AND HAVE SAME PROBLEM MAY BE WITH A LITTLE DIFFERENCE.
INTIMATE ATTACHMENTS ARE THE CENTER OF A PERSON'S LIFE. ATTACHMENT BETWEEN PARENTS and child begins before birth and provides comfort and security to the child,feelings of closeness to and affection for a parent are the most basic indicators of attachment. We all need emotional support,love and concern from our loved one so why not we try to fill the gap as we need each other. Spend quality time with parents,talk about their concerns without irritation. Parents should accept their children as adult and honor their decisions,give suggestions when required,be there as support system where they can find peace in difficult time.
WE CAN NOT CHANGE THE ISSUES EXISTING,BUT WE CAN DO OTHER THINGS TO BRING CLOSENESS IN TACT AS BOND BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILD IS PURE AND LASTING.FORGET BITTERNESS AS WE CAN NOT UNDO PAST. BY GIVING YOURSELF A CHANCE TO KNOW EACH OTHER AS YOU ARE TODAY,APPRECIATION FOR OTHER PERSON GROWS,FEELINGS AND SITUATIONS OF YESTERDAY ARE PUT IN PERSPECTIVE AND ACCEPTANCE COMES EASILY. TO WHAT DEGREE ARE THE CONFLICTS CARRYOVERS FROM CHILDHOOD TO ADULTHOOD? WE CANNOT CHANGE THE PERSON BUT THERE ARE THINGS WE CAN DO.
THIS IS NOT AN EASY PROCESS AS OLD CONFLICTS MAY EMERGE. BUT LOOK FOR NEW SIGHTS. BE HONEST WITH YOUR FEELINGS AS A SON OR DAUGHTER,AND REMEMBER WHAT YOU GIVE WILL COME BACK TO YOU. IT IS A PAINFUL TOO BUT YOU HAVE TO DO TO REMOVE CONFLICTS AND FILLING THE GAP WITH MATURITY. THIS NEED HONESTY,SELF ACCEPTANCE AND WILLINGNESS TO RECONCILE.ONE DAY CHILDREN WOULD BE PARENTS AND HAVE SAME PROBLEM MAY BE WITH A LITTLE DIFFERENCE.
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