If you believe that you have the power to carry out a task, you will vastly enhance your likelihood of success. But that belief requires a sense of entitlement. You need to see yourself as being the right person, in the right place, for the right reason. Why should you doubt any of that? Some factors will always knock our confidence from time to time. Even the greatest, the boldest and the bravest wrestle with these. Mindfulness, these days, is all the rage. Where once only monks and yogis practised mediation, we can all see the advantage of taking some time out, retiring to a peaceful place and floating off into a calm, quiet, mood. But some of us are not quite sure how to do this and even the most ardent practitioners of meditative techniques find themselves too easily distracted. Just because something is difficult, we can't decide that it isn't worthwhile.
You have become used to an uncomfortable climate. Overpowering experiences have caused you to expect difficulty at almost every turn and, though recently things have begun to look up, you have come to the conclusion that you should continue to be wary of trouble. You have made psychological provision for this, creating various personal defence mechanisms. Of course you want to be free. Yet what else do you want? Security? Comfort? Companionship? To enjoy any of these advantages it is necessary to sacrifice a little liberty. Routine comes at the expense of spontaneity. Relationship comes at the expense of independence. Life is a balancing act and we are all pivotal points (if things are calm) or desperate jugglers (if things are not). Right now, you are trying to reconcile what appear to be several mutually exclusive needs. Relax, it's not as big deal as you fear. . It's time to remember that you are not some small cog in a giant machine. You are important. You are entitled t...
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