If you believe that you have the power to carry out a task, you will vastly enhance your likelihood of success. But that belief requires a sense of entitlement. You need to see yourself as being the right person, in the right place, for the right reason. Why should you doubt any of that? Some factors will always knock our confidence from time to time. Even the greatest, the boldest and the bravest wrestle with these. Mindfulness, these days, is all the rage. Where once only monks and yogis practised mediation, we can all see the advantage of taking some time out, retiring to a peaceful place and floating off into a calm, quiet, mood. But some of us are not quite sure how to do this and even the most ardent practitioners of meditative techniques find themselves too easily distracted. Just because something is difficult, we can't decide that it isn't worthwhile.
How much excitement do you want? How many intense emotional experiences do you feel you need? Do you have to get caught up in some great drama? Must you deal with problem after problem? Sorry to ask all these questions, but then questions themselves can be so very destabilising. As soon as we start to ask them, we begin to chip away at whatever is making us feel most stable and secure. You can't just ignore an unsatisfactory situation, but nor do you have to give it your full attention right now Imagine if one day we all wake up to find we are living in an ideal world. A new dawn, a new deal, a new Jerusalem (let's hope it's more peaceful than the old one). Will anything really be different? Well, it will be for you because, whilst your situation remains far from ideal, you are at the start of a big turning point in your emotional journey. You may have your doubts and reservations but you can put some faith in what's changing. It's not the start of a new and ide...
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