WE ARE WHAT WE PRETEND TO BE

Modern days,there are many  trend setters,so many trends here  I am  giving a few,
1. Nuclear families: limited to we two and  ours two.
2. Working parents,children either at hostels or day  boarding school.
3.Empty nests.Bigger houses with no one to live in.Parents at offices,children at hostels and houses are like five star hotels facilities,stay at night.
4.fashion,ever changing fashion is headache for common people.I think clothes should be made of disposal types,to use and throw and not to repeat.
5Celebrations,so many days to celebrate.Now we do not have to wait for any festival or occasion to celebrate.Grand celebrations also posing threat for common people as wealthy  needs occasion to spend a minor part of their wealth whereas normal man will think twice,it has become a compulsion for every average man to make any even a mega event to survive in the society.Media is giving air to fire.
Selling yourself,yes its a trend.Presenting self,carrying self in an impressive way is crucial,playing a major part in our day to day lives.First impression is based upon spontaneous assessment of status,clothes,sex,size,posture and even your facial expressions. We are locked in game of continuous evolution.NOW EVERY BODY HAS TURNED SELF INTO ACTOR,ACTING WITH RIGHT LOOKS AND DIALOGUES.OUR EVERY EMOTION  HAS RIGHT EXPRESSION,DESIGNING OUR OWN PERSONALITIES AS PER OTHERS THOUGHTS,WE SHOULD DO LIKE THIS OR THAT, ACTUALLY WE ARE WHAT WE PRETEND TO BE.

NOBODY IS INTERESTED IN ANYONE,A MAD-RACE. EVERYBODY IS LIVING A ISOLATED LIFE.IS THIS WHAT WE WANTED TO BE?

Every coin has two side,other side of these trends is good as everybody is self-dependent now.Role of both parents is same, today father is not only a provider-now new bonding is happening.Far now they are realising that children need both, worth is measured by how he parents his children,to  nurture them equally.Flesh,blood and a loving heart makes a father.!
Every body has acknowledged the POWER OF NOW.Celebrating every moment of life.


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